childhood

Sweet16090620Q1：Whatwasthemostimpressingthingyouhaveexperiencedinyourchildhood?Skiprubberband跳皮筋Hopscotch跳房子Kickshuttlecock踢毽子Playmarbles打弹子Q2:Whatwasthefavoriteactivityforyoutoentertainyourselfinyourchildhood?Inadditiontothosefantasticthings,wemayalsowentthroughsomeunpleasantmatters.Forinstance,whenwewereinpreschoolers,separationfromparentsmightcauseanxietyandunhappiness.Andaswegotolder,academicandsocialpressures(especiallythequesttofitin)couldalsocreatesomestress.Q3:Canyousharesomedistressingexperienceswithusofyourchildhood?Q4:Howwillyoudescribeyourchildhood?Wonderful?Dissatisfying?Just-so-soorsomethingelse?Whenitcomestochildhood,lotsofpeopleholdanstrongbeliefthatchildhoodisveryimportant.Becauseitisthecriticalperiodoftimeforone’scharacterformation.Ithasansignificanteffectonone’growthbothphysicallyandpsychologically.Inasense,itdeterminesaperson'slife.Q5:Doyouthinkthatchildhoodplaysanverydecisiveroleinyourlife?Ifso,whatkindofinfluence?Ifnot,why?Expertsbelievethattheextendofhappinessandcareonegainsduringchildhoodwillinfluenceone’sbehaviorandcogitation.Hereisapsychologicaltestthatcantellyouwhatsortofeffectyourchildhoodbringstoyou.Thereisaquaintandnostalgicalbum,whenyougentlyopenit,thefirstphotopicturesthatyouarelyinginyourmother’sarmsandsleepingcozily.Thenextphotoisthescenethatyou'recrawlingaround.So,whatkindofphotodoyouthinkwillthenextthirdbe?A.Youaresittingonthebed,surroundedbyalotofcutefluffytoysB.Youaretakingabathinthebathtubhappily,playingwiththewater.C.Youareeatinginthechildtoddlerchairs(儿童学步椅）D.Youarelearningtowalkwithyourmothertakingyourhand.PersonwhoselectA:Youwerelivinginaframeworkandlackingmaterialinthechildhood-40%ofhappinessYourparentsthinkthatchildrencanliveindependentlyisanimportantbaseofthefuture,soyougrewupinavarietyofrulesandregulations.Andyourparentsseldommetyourmaterialrequirements.Fromthechildhoodyouhadlearnedtorestrainyourselffromexpressingyouremotion.Whenyougrowupyoualwaysbetooseriousover-cautiousandcarefultotreateachproblem.PersonwhoselectsB:youareahappyangelandyoucandowhateveryouwanttodoinyourchildhood----40%ofhappiness.Youhaveanabsolutemarvelouschildhood.Yourparentsgaveyoualoosespacewhereyoucanlivewithyourownideas.Youlikedfantasizing,andyouhaveextensivehobbiesandinterests.Youhadstrongcuriosityabouteverythingandstrongpossessiveinstinct.YourFreeandoutspokennaturehavebeenretainedtothepresent.Yourownsatisfactionisveryhigh.Yourheartisextremelysensitive.Yourhighself-esteemmakesitdifficultforyoutoacceptotherpeople'sadviceandsuggestionsPersonwhoselectsC:youarebathingintheovercareandloveheavenfrompeoplearoundyou-70%ofhappinessYoufullyenjoyedthecareofyourparentsinthechildhood.Thelovetheygaveyoucanbesaidtobeanexcessiveprotection.Fromtheeyesofoutsiders,youareconsiderate.Youcanlistenpatientlytoothers’recommendationsandacceptedtheadvice.Youseldomexpressyouroppositiontoothers,youareobedientandthoughtfultothepeoplearound.Infact,whenyoufaceyourclosefamilymembers,youmaybeill-temperedanddeliberatelydothesomethingoppositetoparents’expectation.PersonwhoselectsD:plainnessbehindthemaskofprideandtaciturn-happiness20%Youspentyourchildhoodinthesituationwheretherewasanextremelylackoflove.Yourfeelingscanhardlybeunderstoodbypeople.Inyourchildhood,youlearnedtodothingsaccordingtoyourelders.Sometimesyouwereeagerforindividualism,sometimesfeltdifficulttogetridofinferiorityandkeptreticent.Youhabituallyobeyyoureldersandsuperiors,wantingeverythingyoudocanmakethepeoplearoundyousatisfied.Onthesurface,youusethearrogantwordsanddeedstoproveyouareunique,butprivately,inordertowinthegoodwillofothers,alwaysdosomethingforthebenefitofothers.So,youareboxedintheself-contradiction.Q6:Whatisyouroptionofthispsychologicaltest?(Ifyouarewillingtotellus)Dosetheclarificationaccordtoyourchildhoodandcharacter?Parents'Disciplinetotheirchildren32.50%22.60%19.60%18.80%4.30%2.20%removalofprivilegesyellingsenttothebedroomspankingtime-outsandotherQ7:Fromyourpointofview,whatkindofdisciplinewillproducelessinfluenceorhurttothechildren?GameConsole90s00sSnack90s00sGamesClothQ8:Whatisyourreactiontothosepictures?Doyouthinkthatthedevelopmentoftechnologyandthecostofmoneycanbringchildrenmorepleasureormaketheirchildhoodmorecolorfulthanus?ComparisonsChinesekidwillbereproachedbytheparents,andforcedtocleanthewall.BecauseChineseparentsdon’twantthekiddevelopthebadhabit.Foreignkidwillbeencouragedandpraisedforhiscreativityandtalentwhichcanbehelpful.WhenakidgraffitionthewallWhenakidtakesaheterosexualfriendhomeChinesekidwillbeblamedandwarnednotdoingitagain,Chineseparentsdon’twanttheirchildtobuildacloserelationshipwithoppositesextooearly.Foreignkidwillbeinspiredandtoldyoushouldlearntocommunicatewithoppositesex.Theforeignparentsbelievethatitcanpromotetheirchildren’sunderstandingtobothsexes.WhenakiddisagreeswithhisparentsChinesekidwillbepunishedandhastocompromisetohisparents.Chineseparentswantthekidtobeaconformist.Foreignkidwillbeallowedtoshowhisopinionsandcantalkfreelywithhisparents.Foreignparentswouldliketogivetheirkidmorespace.Q9:Whatconclusioncanyoudrawfromthos