家庭暴力 Family Violence

$FamilyViolenceMembers:CaoRuyunJiaoYuluMaChaoZhaoWeiCONTENTSDefinitionandFeaturesCausesInfluencesSolutions$DefinitionandFeaturesThefamilyviolencenotonlyincludeshotviolence,alsocalledphysicalabusement,suchasbeat,confinement,mutilation,sexualabusement;butalsoincludesemotionalviolence,alsocalledpsychologicalabusement,forexample,Whenpeopleconflict,somewouldsaynothingandleaveothersalone;however,somewouldchoosetoattackothersbysayingsomethingironictohurtothers.Theemotionalviolencewouldputgreatpsychologicalpressureonpeopleanddoesgreatharmtopeople'srelationships.Definition:$Features:1.CommonlyexistItoftenhappensbetweencouples,parentsandchildrenandsoon.Itissaidthatwomenandchildrenareoftenthemajorvictims.2.Variousmodes.Itincludesphysicalabusementandpsychologicalabusement.3.severelyharmful.Itcandoesgreatharmtothevictims'sbodyandmentalhealth,moreseverely,itmaycausesomeonetodeath.what'smore,Itcandefinitelyworsenthefamilyrelationship.$Causes•Influenceoftraditionalideas•Inadequatelegislation(立法不完善)•Laxenforcement(执法不严)•Processingmechanism，mutuallymakingexcuses(互相推诿)$Influenceoftraditionalideas-----------Theideologicalsourceoffamilyviolence1.Perpetrators(施暴者)“Statelaws,familyrules”“Thelawnotathome”2.Victims(受害者)Familyshameshouldnotbemadepublic3.Judicialofficials(司法者)Evenanuprightofficialfindsithardtosettleafamilyquarrel“Thedutifulsonundersticks”$Inadequatelegislation(立法不完善)-------LackoflegalbasisforfamilyviolenceThereisnolegalprovisionfordamagecompensation.VictimsOntheonehandPsychologicalvictimsOntheotherhandCompensationislikelytobefromthehomeofatotalofpropertyexpenses$Laxenforcement(执法不严)Judicialofficials(司法者)-------FamilyviolenceisnotpunishedItisnotabigdeal,iflifeisnotunderthreatThepoliceoftenturnawaywhileknowingfamilyviolence$Processingmechanism，mutuallymakingexcuses(互相推诿)-------Eachdepartmentactsonitsown,thelackofeffectivecoordinationandcooperation在湖南湘潭的一起案件,该案中被丈夫杀害的妇女口袋里装着一封告状信,信中说,她结婚19年中经常受到丈夫殴打,每次她不被打昏,丈夫就不罢休。她找到村委会,村委会让她找派出所,找到派出所,派出所说打死人才管。家庭暴力案件,告了也没有人管是目前一个亟待解决、具有普遍性的问题。$Influences1)underminethefoundationofmarriageDomesticviolencescausesnotonlydifferentdegreesofdamagetothevictims,what’smorsisattendantseriousmental,emotional,andspiritualdamage,whichputtheirmarriageonthevergeofcollapse,evenleadtoadivorce.2)strikeself-esteemandconfidenceoftheinjuredpartyThemostbrutalfactsaboutDomesticviolencesisthatitcanbringseriouspsychologicaltraumaandviolationofpersonaldignitytotheinjuredparty,whichaffectahealthydevelopmentoffamily.whentheinjuredpartycan'tstandviolence,divorcewillbethelastchoice.$3)causeabadeffectonthephysicalandmentalhealthoftheirchildrenAccordingtoasurvey,chirldrenwholiveforalongtimesurrordingdomesticviolenceswillsufferfrommentaldisordersuchasemotionanxiety/fear/self-abasementwhengrowup.Sometimestheymaychooseviolencetoblowoffsteam,whichcanleadtoapathofcrimes.Duetoliveinfear,anxiety,loneliness,depression,familyenvironmentforlongtime,theycannotprocessstudyandlifenormallyHavingwitnessedthecrueltyoffamilyviolence,manychildrenproducedafearofmarriageintheyoungageandstillcan'tgetridoftheshadowofdomesticviolence,whichthusunablethemtoenterthenormalmarriagelife.$$4)InducecrimesandimpactsocialstabilityThecriminalcasescausedbydomesticviolencearegettingmoreandmore.Somewomancan’tstandthelong-termabusefromherspouseandchoosetranslatethemotivesofeliminatingdomesticviolencesintoaction.Theychooserevengetoeliminatetherootcauseofdomesticviolence,whichleadtoacriminousroad.$Solutions•Mostpeoplewhosufferfromthecoldviolencehavesuchfeelings:there’snoonecantell,thereisnoplacetogo,andnolawcanfollow.•Inthiscase,themarriageproblemexpertintroducedseveralwaystodealwiththefamilycoldviolence.$Solutions•Calm•Ifyoufindthatyourspousebegantoappearcoldviolence,don’tquarrellingaboutit,thatwouldbecounterproductive.•Analysis•Youneedapenandapieceofpaper,writedowneverycausationaboutyourspouse’scoldviolence,evenifitisthesmallestthing,Seewhat'scausingtheriftbetweenyou.$•Conversation•Whenyouarereadytocalmthemoodandanalyzeallthereasons,youshouldtaketheinitiativetotalk.Theconversationshouldbeinnothirdcases,shouldbeopen,allpossibleissuesareonthetable.Thecontradictionislikelytoberesolved.Ifyourpartnerhasbeenderailed,well,atleastyouknowit.•Optate•Breakupornot?whenyouanalyzedthewholething,youshouldhavetheanswer.Youhavetotaketheinitiativetomakechoices,it'shardbutnecessary.$•Temporaryseparation•Ifyouareonlyinalongerperiodofthecoldwar,thetemporarybusinesswillbeaverygoodway,buttorememberthatthetimeofseparationisnotmorethanamonth,andafteryoureturnhome,donotseparateanymore!