非语言交流(英文)

•Definition•Bodylanguage•Game•Added:PhysicaldistanceNon-verbalcommunicationisnon-verbalbehaviororbodylanguagetocommunicate,itisawayoftransmittinginformation.Ofwhichtherearefacialexpressions面部表情,gestures手势,physicalcontact(haptics)身体接触（触觉学）,bodymovement(ofhumanmotion)身体移动（人体动作学）,clothing服饰,jewelry珠宝,hair发型,andtoneofvoice语音语调.Asurveyshowsthat60%-65%ofinterpersonalcommunicationisnon-verbalbehavior.Non-verbalCommunicationChronemics时间学Proxemics空间学Kinesics身姿学Paralanguage副语言Bodylanguagemeansmorethanjusthandorarmgestures.itreferstoanylittlemovementofanypartofthebody.TheBodylanguagevocabularytotalsover700,000,morethanthatinthelargestEnglishdictionary.Ourfeetcanpassourthoughtsaccurately,andtheirfeelingaremorehonestthanotherpartsofourbody,famouszoologistandauthorDesmondMorrissaid.我们的脚可以准确地传递给我们的思想，他们的感受比我们身体的其他部位都诚实，著名动物学家和作家德斯蒙德·莫里斯说腿/脚部语言Therearealotofevidencestoprovetheaboveidea.Forexample,wecanobservethechildren'sfootactiontoverifytheirhonesty.Supposethatachildissittingfordinner,thentowatch,andwhenshewantstogoouttoplay,herfeetishowtowobble,feetishowtocan'twaittotouchdown,althoughthechildmaynoteatameal.Parentsmayaskchildrenstayput,whenchildrenfeetwillslowlyawayfromthetable.Herbodymightbeparentshold,butherlegsandfeetwillkeeptwist,andmakethestrengthtothedoorside,thisaccuratelyreflectonwhereshewantedtogo.日常生活中还有很多证据证明以上的观点。例如，我们可以通过观察孩子们的脚部动作来验证他们的诚实度。假设一个孩子正坐着吃饭，这时要注意观察，当她一心想着要出去玩时，她的脚是如何摆动的，双脚是如何迫不及待地要着地的，尽管这个孩子可能还没吃完饭。父母可能会要求孩子保持原位不动，这时孩子的脚会慢慢远离桌子。她的身体可能会被父母按住，但是她的腿和脚会不停扭动，并使尽力气伸向房门一侧，这准确地反映出了她想要去的地方。ExampleWanttoleavehereUncomfortableorunsafeHappy目录Themanplacedhisrightlegliketosetupafortresswithhiskneeinbetweentwoperson.这名男子摆放右腿的方式仿佛是用膝盖在2人之间架起一道堡垒Themanplacedthelegstothekneeawayfromsomeofthebarriersbetweenthetwo.这名男子摆放腿的方式使膝盖远离一些，消除两人之间的障碍•Shrug耸肩•Scratchingtheirheads挠头•Handsclaspedinthechestandcrossthem双手抱于胸前并交叉•Armsopen,palmsup手臂张开，手掌向上•Donotunderstandwhatyousay,unfortunately不明白你说的话，无奈•Embarrassment,forgetfulness,lying尴尬，健忘，撒谎•Hostile,negative，criticism,prevention敌意，否定，批评，预防•Sincere,unfortunately,needtoyourtrust,theinnocent真诚，无奈，需要你的信任，无辜thinkingmemoriesthinksayfeelingsrecalltohearinnerthoughtsTypicallyingfaceaction1.Handinthemouthdothetrick用手在嘴巴上做小动作2.Touchnose触摸鼻子3.Frictioneyes摩擦眼睛4.Scratchears抓挠耳朵5.Gripper抓头6.Pullthecollar拉拽衣领7.Fingeronthemouth手指放在嘴巴上8.Scratchone’sneck抓挠脖子9.Thenormalfrequencyoftheblinkofaneye6-8timesperminute,liewhenthenumberofsignificantlyincreased眨眼的正常频率是每分钟6到8次，撒谎时次数会明显上升1.每次派出两个人，一人表演（主要是做动作），一人猜词。2.猜词人背对投影片，做动作者用身体语言表达投影片上的词语。3.直到猜对为止。抛媚眼傻笑撒娇无奈害羞惊恐PhysicalDistanceSpaceandDistance•亲密的距离(Intimatedistance)：0cm一45cm；•私人的距离(Personaldistance)：closepersonaldistance(45cm一75cm)：yourhusbandandwifefarpersonaldistance(75cm--120cm)：chatinthestreet•礼貌的距离(Socialdistance)：120cm一210cm：alwaysinnon-personalaffairs(常用于非个人事务)210cm--360cm：usuallyusedformoreformalsocialandbusinessdealings(常用于较正式的社交和业务往来)•一般的距离(Publicdistance)：360cm--750cm：informalgatherings(常用于非正式聚会)over750cm：betweentheleadingfigureswhereverhumansandanimals（领导人物到来和人与动物之间）Referencematerial参考资料•BookWhateverybodyissaying书籍《FBI教你读心术》•TVseriesEverymoveyoumake电视剧《读心专家》•Onlineinformationandtextbook网上资料和课本