unit10-cultivation-food-for-thought

Unit10Cultivation教养、修养1.Whatwillyoudotomakeyourfriendssmileandfeelhappy?你会做什么让你的朋友微笑和感到快乐？2.Doyousometimesloseyourtemperwhenyouareintrouble?当你遇到麻烦的时候，你是否也会发脾气？3.Howcanyougetonwellwithothers?你怎么能和别人相处得好？Therewasoncealittleboywithabadtemper.Heoftenhadfightswithhisfriends.....从前有个小男孩脾气不好，他经常和朋友打架.Oneday,hisfathergavehimabagofnailsandtoldhimtohammeranailintothefenceeverytimehelosthistemper.Theboylistenedtohisfatheranddidwhathisfathertoldhimtodo.有一天，他的父亲给了他一袋钉子，告诉他每次他发脾气的时候都要把钉子钉进栅栏里。男孩听了他父亲的话并做了他父亲叫他做的事。Thefirstday,theboydrove17nailsintothefence.Thenthenumberofnailsbecamelessandlessinthefollowingdays.Theboyfoundthatitwaseasiertokeephistemperthantodrivethenailsintothefence.第一天，男孩把17根钉子插进栅栏。接下来的日子里钉子的数量越来越少。这个男孩发现保持脾气比钉钉子更容易。Finally,thedaycamewhentheboydidn’tlosehistemperatall.Hetoldhisfatheraboutitandhisfatheraskedhimtopulloutonenaileachtimehewasabletokeephistemper.终于有一天，男孩没有发脾气。他告诉父亲这件事，他父亲要求他每次控制脾气时都要拔出一个钉子。Thedayspassedandtheyoungboywasfinallyabletotellhisfatherthatallthenailsweregone.Thefathertookhissonbythehandandledhimtothefence.日子一天天过去，小男孩终于告诉父亲，所有的钉子都不见了。父亲牵着儿子的手，领着他来到栅栏前。Hesaid,“Youhavedonewell,son,butlookattheholesinthefence.Thefencewillneverbethesameasitwasbefore.Whenyousaysomewordsinanger,yourbadtemperwillleaveascarjustlikethehole.他说：“你做得很好，孩子，但看看篱笆上的洞。篱笆永远不会和以前一样。当你生气地说几句话时，你的坏脾气就会像洞一样留下疤痕。Evenifyousayyou‘resorry,thewoundisstillthere.Ifyouhurtapersonwithwords,thewoundisasbadasaphysicalone.Friendsarerarejewels.Theymakeyousmileandfeelhappy.Soneverhurtyourfriends.”即使你说对不起，伤痕还在那里。如果你伤害一个人的话，造成的伤痕和身体上是一样的。朋友是稀世珍宝。他们让你笑，感到快乐。所以永远不要伤害你的朋友。”Sincethentheboyhadneverfoughtwithhisfriends.Helearnedhowtogetonwithothersandheneverlosthistemperagain.从那以后，男孩就再也没有和朋友打架了。他学会了如何与别人相处，而且从不发脾气。1.Whatdidthefatheraskthelittleboytodoeachtimehelosthistemper?Thefatheraskedhisson.everytime.2.Howmanynailsdidtheboyhammerintothefencethefirstday?Thefirstday,theboy.tohammeranailintothefencehelosthistemperdrove17nailintothefence3.Whydidtheboystopdrivingthenailsintothefencelater?Becausetheboy.4.Whatdidthefatheraskhimtodoeachtimehewasabletokeephistemper?Thefatheraskedhissoneachtime.didn'tlosehistemperatalltopulloutonenailhewasabletokeephistemper5.Didtheboypulloutallthenails?.6.Whatdoesthestorytellus?...Yes,hedidThestorytellsusthatfriendsarerarejewels,thattheymakeussmileandfeelhappyandthatweshouldneverhurtourfriends.inangerkeeplosenot...atallleadthesameasas...as..getonwith1.Theteacheraskedme,“Whyareyoulateagain?”2.Ourclassroomislargeyours.3.Mymotheraskedmemyroomclean.inangerasastokeep4.Thequestionisdifficult.Youshouldansweritbyyourself.5.Anoldmanustotheoldhouseandtoldushisstory.6.Thegirlhasquestion.yours.notatallledthesameas7.Imykeytothedoorofmybedroomyesterday.8.Theboysandthegirlsinourclassarewelleachother.lostgettingonwith1.Evenifweareangry,wehaveto.(控制自己不发脾气).2.Whydoyousometimes.(发脾气)thesedays?3.Theboysnever.(和女生打架)inourclass.controlourselvesandkeepyourtemper.loseyourtemperhavefightswithgirls4.Theirbedroom.(看起来和以前不一样了).5.Thisbookis(一点儿都没趣)6.Doyouknow.(怎样与同学相处吗？).doesn'tlookthesameasbeforenotinterestingatallhowtogetonwithyourclassmates?1.—Whatyou(do)now?—I(play)computergames.2.Myfather(work)inthiscompanyfor5yearsnow.3.WhenIsawhim,he(learn)newEnglishwords.aredoingamplayinghasworkedwaslearning4.IwasverygladtohearthisbecauseI.(look)forwardtoseeingmygrandpa.5.—Whereyou(go)?—I(go)totheairporttomeetmyboss.6.Sorry,Ican'tgowithyounow.I.(notfinish)myhomework.waslookingaregoingamgoinghaven'tfinishedIsometimesloseandsay.inanger.Mybadtemperhurt.badly.Iwanttomakefriends,butIdon'tknowhowto.AfterI.—“FoodforThought”,IthinkIhaveabetterideaofthatnow.mytempersomewordsdoLiLeiwithhimgetonwithhimreadWhenweareintrouble,wehaveto.Whenweareinangry,wehaveto.Ifyourfriendisangrywithyou,youshould.helpeachotherkeepourtemperloseyourtemperYoushouldthinkaboutwhyyourfriend..Wehavetowaytosolvetheproblem.Itisimportanttokonwhowtowellwithothersandnever.Yoursmilecanmake.isangryfindagetonhurtothersthemhappy