Unit-13-The-Needs-That-Drive-Us-All

Unit13TheNeedsThatDriveUsAllContents12345WarmingupBackgroundinformationVocabularyTextanalysisCriticalthinkingWarmingup1.Whatdoyouneed?Food&clothingLoveWealthRespectFriendshipFreedomSafetyFriendship•Whatdoyouthinkare/arenotthebasicneedsofhumanbeings?•Choosefromthefollowinglistoraddmoretothelist.Warmingupfood&clothinglovefriendshipwealthfunself-fulfillmentpowersafetyindependencerespectfreedomcourage…BackgroundinformationWarmingup2.Maslow’shierarchyofneedsBreathing,food,water,clothing,sleep,homeostasisSecurityofbody,employment,resources,morality,family,health,propertyConfidence,achievement,respectofothersorbyothersMorality,creativity,spontaneity,problemsolving,lackofprejudice,acceptanceoffactsFriendship,familyWilliamGlasserAbouttheauthor锐普PPT论坛chinakui转载：•BornonMay11,1925,inCleveland,Ohio•aninternationallyrecognizedpsychiatrist•RealityTherapyin1965•SchoolsWithoutFailurein1969•ChoiceTheoryin1998•Warning:PsychiatryCanBeHazardoustoYourMentalHealthin2003AbouttheauthorRealityTheoryPeoplearerequiredtoliveinaworldfullofotherhumanbeings,andeveryindividualmustlearntosatisfyhisownneedsinawaythatdoesnotencroachuponanotherperson'sneeds.RealityTherapy•humanbeingshavefourbasicpsychologicalneedsaftersurvival:•toloveandbelovedbyanotherpersonorgroupforafeelingofbelonging;•theneedforpower,throughlearning,achieving,feelingworthwhile,winningandthroughbeingcompetent;•theneedforfreedom,includingindependenceandautonomywhilesimultaneouslyexercisingpersonalresponsibility;•theneedforfun,pleasureseekingenjoymentandrelaxationisalsoaveryimportantneedforgoodpsychologicalhealthRealityTheory•Whatreallydriveshumanbeingsistheirneedtobelongandtobeloved.Whatalsodriveshumansisthedesiretobefreeandwiththatfreedomcomesgreatresponsibility.••Thebiggestreasonapersonisinpainandactingoutisbecausehe/shelacksoneimportant“otherbeing”toconnectwith.•Thecoreproblemofpsychologicaldistressisthatoneormoreoftheclient'sessentialneedsarenotbeingmettherebycausingtheclienttoactirresponsibly.•Realitytherapyholdsthatthekeytobehavioristoremainawareofwhatanindividualpresentlywantsandmakechoicesthatwillensurethatgoal.AbouttheauthorChoiceTheoryChoiceTheory:Thereasonwhysomanypeopleareunhappyintheirrelationships.Heexplainsthat,unlikeallotherlivingcreatures,onlyhumanbeingsaregeneticallydrivenbytheneedforpower.Wetrytosatisfyourneedforpowerbyusingexternalcontrolpsychology—literallytryingtoforcepeopletodowhatwewantthemtodo.Thisstrugglehasledtothesymptomssuchaspainandfatigue.ChoiceTheoryisaimedatproactivelycreatingmentalhealththroughhappyhumanrelationships.Thebasicneedsthatdriveusall:1.Tosurvive(andbesecure)2.Tobelongandbeloved3.Togainpower(togainandkeeprespect)4.Tobefree5.TohavefunHumanNeedsTheoriesChoice(Control)Theory•Behaviorisnevercausedbyaresponsetoanoutsidestimulus(situationorperson).•Behaviorisaconstantattempttosatisfyoneormoreofourfivebasicneeds.•Thesebasicneedsarethoughttobeinnate(wearebornwiththem).•Wechooseallthatwedoandweareresponsibleforthechoiceswemake.BackgroundHumanNeedsTheoriesChoice(Control)TheoryVocabularyVocabulary1.Academicadj.a)of(teachingorlearningin)schools,colleges,etc学校的;学院的e.g.:theacademicyear学年学术自由b)scholarly;nottechnicalorpracticale.g.:academicsubjectsItisapurelyacademicquestion.academy:学院，学会•e.g.:SwedenAcademy•AcademyAward=Oscaracademician:院士academicfreedomVocabulary2.Pervasiveadj.:existingeverywheree.g.:pervasivedust,smell,influencepervasivenessn.pervadev.很多国家都普遍出现非自愿性失业。•Involuntaryunemploymentispervasiveinmanycountries.•Involuntaryunemploymentpervadesmanycountries.•Thereisapervasivenessofinvoluntaryunemploymentinmanycountries.Vocabulary3.associatev.:(+with)①associatesth./sb.with…:tomakeaconnectionbetweenpeopleorthingsinyourminde.g.:Ialwaysassociatethesmellofbakingwithmychildhood.②associatewithsb.:spendtimewithsb.e.g.:Idon’tlikeyouassociatingwiththem.③associateyourselfwithsth.:toshowthatyousupportoragreewithsth.e.g.:Ihaveneverassociatedmyselfwithpoliticalextremism.associateadj.:ofalowerlevele.g.:associateprofessor/editor/directorassociaten.:apersonthatyouworkwithVocabulary4.attachv.:(+to)①attachsth(tosth):fastenorjoine.g.:Iattachedadocumentattachedtotheletter.②attachimportance,significance,value,weight,etc.(tosth).:tobelievethatsthisimportantorworththinkingaboute.g.:Iwouldn'tattachtoomuchweighttothesefindings.③attachyourselftosb:tojoinsbforatime,sometimeswhenyouarenotwelcomeorhavenotbeeninvitede.g.:HeattachedhimselftomeatthepartyandIcouldn'tgetridofhi④attachtosb/sth:connectedwithsb/sthe.g.:Noblameattachestoyouinthisaffair.这件事不怪你.attachmentn.Vocabulary5.bareadj.:a)withoutclothinge.g.:barelegsTheyworeshabbyclothesandtheirfeetwerebare.b)withouttheusualcoveringorprotectione.g.:thebarebranchesofwintertreesabaremountainsidec)emptyoralmostempty(bareof)e.g.:aroombareoffurnitured)onlyjustsufficient;basice.g.:barenecessitiesHegot60points-abarepass.barebone?mainorbasicfactsVocabulary6.catalystn.:a)asubstancethatmakesachemicalreactionhappenfasterwithoutbeingchangeditselfe.g.:Chlorinewillactasacatalyst.b)personorthingt