绝望的主妇经典片尾语

Everyoneunderstandsthenatureofwar,wealsounderstandthatvictorydependsonthecardsthatwehavebeendealt.Somewhenfacedwithabloodybattlesimplygivein,butforsomesurrenderisunacceptable,eventhoughtheyknowitwouldbeafighttothedeath.每个人都清楚战争的本性，我们也知道胜利取决于我们打出的那些牌。有些人在面对血战时会从容放弃；但是对某些人来说投降是无法接受的，尽管他们清楚即将决一死战。Theworldisfilledwithunlikelyfriendships.Howdidtheybegin,withonepersondesperatelyinneedandanotherwillingtolendahelpinghand.Whensuchkindnessisoffered,wearefinallyabletoseetheworthofthosewehavepreviouslywrittenoff,andbeforewe'veknownit,abondhasformed,regardlessofwhetherotherscanunderstandit.Yes,unlikelyfriendshipsstartupeveryday,nooneunderstandsthismorethanthelonely,infact,andit'swhattheycounton.世界上到处都是不太可能的友谊。它们都是由一方迫切的需求和另一方伸出的援助之手开始的。当这样的帮助提供给我们的时候，我们才明白那些曾经认为不可救药的人的价值。在我们发现之前，一条纽带就已经把我们连接在一起了，不管别人能否理解。的确，不太可能的友谊每天都在发生，没有人能比孤独寂寞的人更了解这一点。事实上，这就是他们的指望。ThisishowBreeVanDeKampfinallycametochangeherweeklyroutine,shestillcleanedonTuesdays,paidherbillsonWednesdays,anddidherlaundriesonThursdays,butherFridayswerenowreservedforameeting,aspecialmeetingwhereshestoodinfrontofpeopleshedidn'tknow,andsaidthingsshedidn'tbelieve,andafterwardsBreewouldcomehomeandrewardherselfonthecompletionofanothersuccessfulweek.这就是BreeVanDeKamp如何最终改变了自己的每周安排，她仍然在周二打扫卫生；在周三付账单；在周四洗衣服，但每个周五她要参加一个特别会议，在会议上她站在一群陌生人面前说她自己都不相信的话，然后回到家中犒劳自己，祝贺完满成功的一周。AtthatprecisemomentasDrHansonMillswascuttingyetanotherumbilicalcord（脐带）,othertieswerebeingseveredallovertown,liketheonebetweenachildandamotherwhodidn'twanthimtogrowupsoquickly,ortheonebetweenacaseoffinewineandahousewifewhohadn'twantedtoadmitshehadaproblem,ortheonebetweenawomenandtheboyfriendwhocouldn'tforgiveherbetrayal.Thechoicetoseparatefromwhatweloveispainful;theonlythingworseiswhensomeonewe'vetrustedmakesthechoiceforus.就在汉森·米尔斯医生切断另一根脐带的时候，小镇上其它的联系也被切断了。比如一个母亲和儿子之间，母亲不想孩子那么快就长大；一箱好酒和主妇之间，主妇不想承认她酗酒；或是一个女人和男友之间，男友不能原谅她的背叛。选择离开我们的爱是痛苦的，更糟糕的是我们信任的人让我们做这样的选择。Temptationcomestoallofus,whetherornotwesuccumbdependsonourabilitytorecognizeitsdisguise,sometimesitarrivesinaformofanoldflame,flickeringbacktolife,oranewfriendwhocouldendupbeingsomuchmore,orayoungchildwhowakensfeelingswedidn'tknowwehad.Andsowegiveintotemptationallthewhileknowingcomemorning,we'llhavetosuffertheconsequences.每个人都会受到诱惑，我们是否屈服于诱惑取决于我们识破其伪装的能力。有时它们以闪回的火花形式出现；有时是一个意义深远的新朋友；有时是一个触发我们不曾有过的感觉的婴儿。不过如果我们屈服于诱惑，那么第二天我们必须承担后果。We'vealldonesomethinginourlivesusweareashamedof,someofushavefallenforthewrongman,somehaveletgooftherightwomen,there'rethosewhohavehumiliatedtheirparentsandthosewhohavefailedtheirchildren.Yes,we'veallmademistakesthatdiminishusandthosewelove.Butthereisredemptionifwetrytolearnfromthosemistakesandgrow.我们都做过一些自己都感到惭愧的事。有些人爱错了人，有些人错过了爱；有些孩子使父母丢脸，也有些家长让孩子失望。是的，我们都犯过错，使自己和爱人蒙羞。但如果我们试着从这些错误中吸取教训并成长，就还有挽回的机会。There'sisaprayerintendedtogivestrengthtopeoplefacedwithcircumstancestheydon'twanttoaccept.Thepoweroftheprayercomesfromitsinsightintohumannature.Becausesomanyofusrageagainstthehandthatlifehasdealtus;Becausesomanyofusarecowardly,andafraidtostandupforwhatisright;Becausesomanyofusgiveintodespair,whenfacedwithanimpossiblechoice.Thegoodnewsforthosewhoutterthesewordsisthatgodwillhearyouandansweryourprayer.Thebadnewsisthatsometimestheanswerisno.祈祷赐给我们力量，让我们能够面对不愿接受的事实。祈祷的力量来自它对人性的洞察力；因为太多的人对我们的生活充满愤怒；因为太多的人过于懦弱，不敢为正义拍案而起；因为太多的人无法选择的时候，会对绝望妥协。好消息是敢于把话说出口的人，上帝会听到你的祈祷并回答你。坏消息是上帝的答案有时是否定的。Whenthetruthisugly,peopletrytokeepithidden,becausetheyknowifrevealed,thedamageitwilldo.Sotheyconcealitwithinsturdywalls,ortheyplaceitbehindcloseddoors,ortheyobscureitwithcleverdisguises,buttruth,nomatterhowugly,alwaysemerges,andsomeonewecareaboutalwaysendsupgettinghurt,andsomeoneelsewillrevelintheirpain,andthat'stheugliesttruthofall.当真相很丑陋的时候，人们想法设法来掩盖它。因为他们知道一旦被发现，后果相当严重。所以他们用严实的墙来遮蔽它；或把真相关在紧闭的门后；或用聪明的伪装使它们变得朦胧。但不管真相多么丑陋，它们总会浮现，那些我们关心的人最后还是会受到伤害，而另外一些人却为他们的痛苦而快乐，这才是最丑陋的事实。It'sashockingmomentforeachofusthatmomentwerealizeweareallaloneinthisworld.Thefamilywetakeforgrantedcouldonedayabandonus;thehusbandwetrustsoimplicitlymightbetrayus;thedaughterwelovesodeeplyperhapswon'treturntous.Andthenwecouldendupallbyourselves.对每个人来说意识到自己孤独地活在世上都是无比震惊的。我们毫不怀疑的家庭会抛弃我们；我们深信无比的丈夫也可能背叛我们；我们深爱的女儿也许不再回到我们的身边。那时我们只能一个人孤独地走到生命的尽头。ThisisthestreetwhereIusedtolive,andthesewerethepeoplewithwhomIsharedmylife.Imetthemthedaytheymovedin,andIsawwhattheybroughtwiththem-beautifuldreamsforthefutureandquiethopesforabetterlifenotjustforthemselves,butfortheirchildren,too.IfIcould,wouldItellthemwhatliesahead?WouldIwarnthemofthesorrowandbetrayalthatlieinstore?No,fromwhereIstandnow,Iseeenoughoftheroadtounderstandhowitmustbetraveled.Thetrickistokeepmovingforwardtoletgoofthefearandtheregretthatslowusdownandkeepusfromenjoyingajourneythatwillbeovertoosoon.这就是我曾经生活的街道，我和这些人一起分享过生活。我在他们搬来那天起认识的他们，我看到他们带来的——对美好未来的憧憬；对更好生活的向往，为自己更为了孩子。如果我可以，我会告诉他们前路是什么样的吗？我会警告他们未来的悲伤和背叛吗？不会，以我目前的处境，我自然明白路应该怎样走。秘诀就是放下拖慢我们脚步的艰难困苦，勇往直前的享受这快乐而又短暂的人生旅途。Everystormbringswithithopethatsomehowbymorning,everythingwillbemadecleanagain.Andeventhemosttroublingstainswillhavedisappeared.Likethedoubtsoverhisinnocence,ortheconsequenceofhismistake,lik