七选五阅读练习-(1)

High-qualityrelationshipsmakepeoplehappy.Somepeoplelivinginthepoorestcommunitieshavealmostnothingbutturnouttobethehappiestbecausetheysharealife,together.Ifeffectiverelationshipsareworking,happinessisalwayspossible.Herearesomesimpletipsforbuildingeffectiverelationships.Listentoandtrytounderstandothers'positionsandfeelings.Listeninginitselfcanleadtounderstanding,andifyouunderstandsomeoneelsefully,thenyouknowhowtoworkbetterwithhimorher.Openlyexpressyourneedsandfeeling.Sometimesweexpectpeopleparticularlythoseclosetousathomeorworktounderstandwhatwewantandtogiveuswhatweneedintuitively(凭直觉地).However,peoplearesocomplicatedandsodifferentthatevenwhentheyhavelivedtogetherfor60years,theycanstillsurpriseeachother.Soweneedtosaywhatweneedandtoexpresshowwefeel.Inordertomakeourrelationshipsmoreeffective,weshouldtreatourselvesandotherpeoplewithrespect.Respectisoneofthemostimportantelementsofanygoodrelationship.Finally,learntofacedifferencescorrectly.Learningthistakestimeandcanbeuncomfortable.However,ifwecantrytoremovedifferencesinaneffectiveway,wearemorelikelytobuildexcitingandsatisfyingrelationshipswithothers.Bydoingthesethingsyoumaydiscoverthatthehappinessyoulongforismuchcloserthanyouthought.根据短文内容，从短文后的选项中选出能填入空白处的最佳选项。选项中有两项为多余选项。(辽宁重点中学卷-easy)Itisnotsoeasytodisagreewithyourparents．Hereareafewquicktipsonhowtoshowyouropinionintherightway．51Don’tletangrywordsflyoutofyourmouthifyoudon’treallywanttosaythem，oryouwillhavealotofworktodolater．52Howwouldyoufeelifyouwereyourmotherorfather?Whydotheydothat?Isitreallybad?Trytostaycalm．Ifyoufindyourselfgettingtooangry,askforsoftietimeIobealone．53Learntolisten．Maybeyourparentsaren’taspersuasive(具有说服力的)asyouthink.54Payattentiontoneedsratherthanproblems55Tellyourparentsthatyouwanttodiscusstheproblemwiththemratherthanworkagainstthem．A．Thinkbeforeyouspeak．B．NeverlistentoyourparentsC．Thinkabouttheproblemfromyourparents’pointofview．D．Itisquitecommontodisagreewithone’sparents．E．Hearthemoutandthendecidehowtodealwiththeproblem．F．Beclearaboutwhatyouneed，ratherthanfocusonwhyyoudisagree．G．Ifyoucan,trytodiscusstheproblemwithyourparentsatanothertime．参考答案：ACGEF根据短文内容，从短文后的选项中选出能填入空白处的最佳选项。选项中有两项为多余选项。Doctorssayangercanbeanextremelydamagingemotion,unlessyoulearnhowtodealwithit.Theywarnthatangercanleadtoheartdisease,stomachproblems,headaches,emotionalproblemsandpossiblycancer.___71___Somepeopleexpressangeropenlyinacalmreasonableway.Othersburstwithanger,andscreamandyell.Butotherpeoplekeeptheirangerinside.Theycannotorwillnotexpressit.Thisiscalledrepressinganger.Foryearsmanydoctorsthoughtthatrepressingangerwasmoredangeroustoaperson’shealththanexpressingit.Theysaidthatwhenapersonisangry,thebrainreleasesthesamehormones(荷尔蒙).Theyspeedtheheartrate,raisebloodpressure,orsugarintotheblood,etc.___72___Somedoctorssaythatbothrepressingandexpressingangercanbedangerous.Theybelievethatthosewhoexpressangerviolentlymaybemorelikelytodevelopheartdisease,andtheybelievethatthosewhokeepangerinsidemayfaceagreaterdangerofhighbloodpressure.___73___Theysaythefirststepistoadmitthatyouareangryandtorecognizetherealcauseoftheanger,thendecideifthecauseisseriousenoughtogetangryabout.Ifitis,theysay,“___74___Waituntilyourangerhascooleddownandyouareabletoexpressyourselfcalmlyandreasonably.”Doctorssaythatagoodwaytodealwithangeristofindhumorinthesituationthathasmadeyouangry.___75___A.Ingeneralthepersonfeelsexcitedandreadytoact.B.Theysaidthatlaughterismuchhealthierthananger.C.Expressingangerviolentlyismoreharmfulthanrepressingit.D.Angermaycauseyouacancer.E.Donotexpressyourangerwhileangry.F.Angerisanormalemotionthatweallfeelfromtimetotime.G.Doctorssaythesolutionislearninghowtodealwithanger.参考答案：FAGEB根据短文内容，从短文后的选项中选出能填入空白处的最佳选项。选项中有两项为多余选项。Amajorsourceofteenstressisschoolexams,andtestanxietyisnotuncommon.Whenyourecognizeyourteenisunderstress,howcanparentshelpyourteenstaycalmbeforeanexam?Beinvolved.Parentsneedtobeinvolvedintheirteen’swork.71_Whattheylookforisyourpresence—totalk,tocry,orsimplytositwiththemquietly.Communicateopenlywithyourteen.Encourageyourteentoexpressherworriesandfears,butdon’tletthemfocusonthosefears.Helpthemgetorganized.72Together,youandyourteencanworkoutatime—tableinwhichshecanstudyforwhatsheknowswillbeonthetest.Provideacalmsetting.Helpyourteensetupaquietplacetostudyandprotecthisprivacy.Givethemanutritiousdiet.Itisimportantforyourteentoeatahealthy,balanceddietduringexamtimestofocusanddoherbest.73Ifthishappens,encourageyourteentoeatlightmealsorsandwiches.Ahealthydiet,ratherthanjunkfood,isbestforreducingstress.74Persuadeyourteenagertogetsomesleepand/ordosomethingactivewhensheneedsarealbreakfromstudying.Makingtimeforrelaxation,fun,andexerciseareallimportantinreducingstress.Helpyourteenbalancehertimesothatshewillfeelcomfortabletakingtimeoutfromstudyingtospendtimewithfriendsorrest.Showapositiveattitude.75Yourpanic,anxietyandblamecontributetoyourteen’spressure.Makeyourteenfeelacceptedandvaluedforherefforts.Mostimportantly,reassureyourteenthatthingswillbeallright,nomatterwhattheresultsare.A.Aparent’sattitudewilldictatetheirteen’s