2019-2020学年高中英语 Module 1 Small Talk Section Ⅰ Warm

1Module1SmallTalk一个人如果没有良好的社交能力，就难以在社会上真正立足。阅读下面的文章，体会社交能力的重要性。Amongalltheimportantskillsofhumanbeings,socialskillsareregardedasthemostimportant.Inaninformationage,communicationwithothersinallwalksoflifeplaysanimportantrole.Nowonderthatmanystudentsaredeliberatelyworkingontheirsocialskills.Commonsensehastoldusthatthosewhohavesuccessfulloveaffairsusuallypossessexcellentsocialskills.Theyaregoodatpromotinganeasy­goingrelationwiththeirpartners,whichnaturallyresultsinaromanticaffair.Thesameistrueforfamilylife.Goodsocialskillsareessentialtokeepfamilymembersongoodtermswitheachother,bringingaboutahappyfamilylife.Secondly,statisticsshowthatone'scareersuccessdependsheavilyonhisorhersocialskills.Professionalskillsarenecessary,butwithoutgoodsocialskills,agoodteamworkishardlyimaginable,whichwouldundoubtedlyhinderthefullplayofprofessionalskills.Examplesarenotrarelyseenfrompeoplewhoaretalentedandhavereachedhighlevelofacademicdevelopment,buthavefinallycometonothingduetotheirpoorsocialskills.Inconclusion,ifwearetoleadahappylifeandsucceedincareer,wemustimproveourselvesinsuchsocialskillsastheskillincommunicatingonafeelinglevel,theskillindevelopingandusinginterpersonalrelationsandsoon.[阅读障碍词]1．deliberatelyadv.故意地，有意地2．possessv.拥有3．promotev.促进4．hinderv.阻碍，妨碍[诱思导读]Whatisthepassagemainlyabout?Theimportanceofsocialskills.2SectionⅠWarmingUp，Pre­reading&ReadingⅠ.匹配下列单词的词性及汉语意思()1.informalA．n.机会()2.seriousB．n.责任；义务()3.confidentlyC．v.点头()4.lackD．v.叹气，叹息()5.advanceE．v.打呵欠()6.nodF．v.缺乏，缺少()7.yawnG．adj.严肃的()8.sighH．adj.非正式的()9.opportunityI．adj.预先的，在前的()10.obligationJ．adv.自信地[答案]1－5HGJFI6－10CEDABⅡ.选择下列句中词组的汉语意思A．交朋友，建立友谊B．对……神经紧张/害怕/胆怯/焦虑不安C．想起，回忆起D．把目光从……移开E．除此之外，另外F．了解(到)；找出(信息)1．Youneedmoneyandtime.Inaddition,youneeddiligence.2．Hedoesn'tlikemakingfriends,sohealwaysfeelslonely.3．Don'tbenervousaboutyourillness.It'snothingserious.4．It'simpolitetolookawayfromthepersonwhenyouaretalkingwithhimorher.5．ThemomentIseethephoto,Ialwaysthinkofthehappychildhoodinthecountryside.6．Scientistshaven'tfoundouttherealreasonwhydinosaursbecameextinctmillionsofyearsago.[答案]1－6EABDCFHowGoodAreYourSocialSkills?3Haveyouevercrossedtheroadtoavoidtalkingtosomeoneyourecognise?Wouldyoulovetogotoapartyandtalkconfidentlytoeveryguest？①Doyouwanttomakemorefriendsbutlacktheconfidencetotalktopeopleyoudon'tknow②？Andareyounervousabouttheideaofbeingatasocialeventinanothercountry?Don'tworry－wecanhelpyou！你的社交技能有多好？你是否做过这样的事情：看见认识的人以后，故意过马路以避免与其说话？你是否愿意参加聚会并自信地和每位宾客交谈？你是否想结交更多的朋友但又缺乏与陌生人交谈的信心？你是否对要在别的国家参加社交活动的想法感到忐忑不安？别担心——我们能帮助你！[助读讲解]①Wouldyouloveto...?意为“你愿意……？”。②youdon'tknow为定语从句，修饰先行词people，省略了关系词who(m)/that。Youneedn'tworryaboutsituationsliketheseifyouhavegoodsocialskills.Andtheyareeasytolearn③.Peoplewithgoodsocialskillscommunicatewellandknowhowtohaveaconversation.Ithelpsifyoudoalittleadvanceplanning.④如果你具备良好的社交技能，你就不必担心诸如此类的情况。而且这些技巧学起来容易。具备良好社交技能的人能很好地和别人交流并且知道怎样交谈。如果预先做些计划，那将对你有所帮助。[助读讲解]③注意此句型是“主语＋be＋adj.＋todo”，不定式常用主动形式表示被动意义。④It在本句中作形式主语，if引导的从句作真正的主语。Hereareafewideastohelpyou.►LearnhowtodosmalltalkSmalltalkisveryimportantandpreparesyouformoreseriousconversations.Beprepared!Havesomelow­riskconversationopenersready.Forexample：●thinkofarecentnewsstory－nottooserious,e.g．astoryaboutafilmstarorsportsstar●thinkofthingstotellpeopleaboutyourstudies●thinkof“safe”thingsyoucanaskpeople'sopinionsabout⑤－music,sport，films，etc.●thinkoftopicsthatyouwouldavoidifyouweretalkingtostrangers⑥－andavoidtalkingaboutthem!Thatway,youdon'tdamageyourconfidence！下面为你出些主意。►学习怎样聊天聊天是很重要的，它能使你为一些更严肃的谈话做好准备。有备无患！准备好几句不太会出错的开场白。例如：4●回忆起一则最近的新闻报道——不要太严肃，譬如，一则有关电影明星或体育明星的新闻报道●想出一些有关你的学业的事情来告诉别人●想出一些你能询问别人意见的“安全”的事情——音乐、体育、电影等●想出一些和陌生人谈话时要回避的话题——并且要避免谈论这些话题！那样你的自信心就不会被伤害了！[助读讲解]⑤youcanaskpeople'sopinionsabout为定语从句，修饰先行词things，此处省略了关系词that/which。⑥thatyouwouldavoid为定语从句，修饰先行词topics，if从句中的be动词用了were，属于虚拟语气的用法。►DevelopyourlisteningskillsListeningisaskillwhichmostpeoplelack⑦，butcommunicationisatwo­wayprocess－itinvolvesspeakingANDlistening.Alwaysremember－youwon'timpresspeopleifyoutalktoomuch.Herearesomeideastomakeyouabetterlistener：Do...●showthatyouarelisteningbyusingencouragingnoisesandgestures－smiling,nodding,saying“uh­huh”and“OK”，etc.●keepgoodeyecontact●usepositivebodylanguage●askformoreinformationtoshowyourinterestDon't...●lookatyourwatch●yawn●sigh●lookawayfromthepersonwho'stalkingtoyou●changethesubject●finishotherpeople'ssentencesforthemAlwaysrememberthewordsofBenjaminDisraeli,BritishPrimeMinisterinthe19thcentury：“Talktoamanabouthimself，andhewillspeaktoyouforhours！”►加强你的倾听技能倾听是大多数人所缺乏的技巧，而交流是双向的过程——它包括说和听两个方面。要永远记住——如果你说太多并不会给人留下什么好印象。下面是一些使你成为更好的倾听者的方法：要……5●用一些鼓励的话和示意动作表示你正在倾听——微笑、点头、说“嗯”和“对啊”等●保持良好的目光接触●使用积极的肢体语言●询问更多的信息以表示你的兴趣不要……●看你的手表●打呵欠●叹气●把目光从正跟你说话的人身上移开●改变话题●替别人把话说完要始终牢记19世纪英国首相本杰明·迪斯雷利的话：“和一个人谈论他自己，他会和你说上几个小时！”[助读讲解]⑦whichmostpeoplelack为定语从句，修饰先行词askill。►LearntherulesIfyougotoasocialoccasioninanothercountry,rememberthatsocialrules(社交规则)canbedifferent.Insomecountries,forexample,youhavetoarriveontimeataparty;inothercountries,youdon'tneedto⑧.Inaddition(另外),youneedtoknowhowlongyoushouldstay，andwhenyouha