研究生综合英语1Unit2

Unit2IsLoveanArt?U1AdditionallnformationfortheTeacher’sReferenceTextIsLoveanArt?Warm-upActivitiesFurtherReadingSpeakingSkillsAdditionalWorkUnit2IsLoveanArt?Warm-upActivitiesWarm-up1•Iloveyounotforwhoyouare,butforwhoIambeforeyou.我爱你不是因为你是谁，而是我在你面前可以是谁。•Goodlovemakesyouseethewholeworldfromonepersonwhilebadlovemakesyouabandonthewholeworldforoneperson.好的爱情是你通过一个人看到整个世界，坏的爱情是你为了一个人舍弃世界。•Lovemakesmangrowuporsinkdown.爱情，要么让人成熟，要么让人堕落。1.Giveyourowndefinitionoflove.Unit2IsLoveanArt?Warm-up2•It'snotbecauseofstabilitythatsomeonewantstomarry,butbecauseoflackofstability.并不是因为安定了，所以想要结婚，就是无法与某人安定下去了，所以才要结婚。•Inthisworld,thereisnoaccident,butsomecertaintythatpretendstobeaccident.在这世界上无所谓偶然，只是伪装成偶然的必然。Unit2IsLoveanArt?Warm-up3Thenthemanmetawoman(ormandependingonpreference)andhefeltimportant,accepted,wanted,caredabout,understood,cherishedandeverythingelsethatiswonderfulandgoodintheworld.Andallthosethingshefeltfromthewoman,hefeltforthewomanaswell.Shewaseveryotherlovecombined.Andforthis,helovedher.Andlovecanonlybedefinedasallthesethingscombined.Unit2IsLoveanArt?Warm-up42.Canyousuggestwaystowinayoungwomanorayoungman’slove?Atsomepointinourlives,weallplaythedatinggame.Thequestionis:howdowewinit?Shouldweexaggerateourpositivequalitiesorsticktothetruth?Whichpick-uplinesarewinnersandwhichonesbomb?Willablinddateleadtolong-lastinglove?Herearesome“rules”tolivebyinthedatingworld.Choosetheonesyouthinkwillworkforyou:Makethemsuspectyou’reinterested,butdon’tletthemknowforsure.Menlikethechase,sogiveittothem!Unit2IsLoveanArt?Youcouldbemarriedtomorrowifyouloweredyourstandardsfarenough.Bettertowaitfortherealthingthantowasteyourtimeonsomethingthatwon’tlast.Ifyoufindaguywhoclaimshewantstotakecareofyou,getawayfast!You’lljustenduptakingcareofhim.You’llfindMr.RightwhenyouknowyouareMs.Rightwhenyoufeelsecureandokaywithyourself.Refusetoplaygames.Ifellinlovewithmyfiancéwhenhesimplywalkeduptomeandpresentedhimself-nodumblines,nofakesmile,just“Hi,howareyoudoing?”Stayawayfrommenwhotalkonlyaboutmoney.That’susuallyasignofinsecurity.Warm-up5Unit2IsLoveanArt?Warm-up6Whenyouneedtogetawayfromaguy,starttalkingaboutsomethingreallyboring,likecomputers.Thatwillusuallyscarehimoff.Don’tputupwithcriticism,especiallywhenitcomestofood.Everywomanshouldbefreetoeatwhatshewantswhenshewants.Don’tbetoopicky.Iknowwomenwhohaveshunnedmenbecausetheydidn’tlookright(headistoobig),smellright(toomuchcologne)orevenbreatheright(tooloud).Unfortunately,womenwholikethisendupignoringordumpingperfectlygoodmenwithoutevengivingthemachance.Unit2IsLoveanArt?Warm-up7Onafirstdate,keepitbrief.Youwanttohavesomethingtotalkaboutthenexttime.Paymoreattentiontowhetherhe’sagoodpersonandwillbegoodtoyouthantowhathelookslike.Neverdatemorethanoneguyatatime,eveniftheyknowabouteachother.It’sexhaustingandconfusing.You’llendupwantingtoberidofallofthem,evenifunderothercircumstancesoneormoreofthemmighthavehadpotential.Unit2IsLoveanArt?ErichFromm(1900-1980)wasborninFrankfurt,Germany.HereceivedhisPh.DfromHeidelbergin1922andbeganacareerasapsychotherapist.In1934,hemovedtotheU.S.andsettledinNewYorkCity,andeventuallybecameanaturalizedU.S.citizen.Inthe1940shebegantowrite.Someofhiswell-knownbooksareEscapefromFreedom(1941),TheSaneSociety(1955),TheArtofLoving(1956),LiewithoutIllusions(1962)andTheAnatomyofHumanDestructiveness(1973).ApsychiatristprimarilyconcernedwiththeconditionofthehumanAIFTTR1.1AdditionallnformationfortheTeacher’sReference1.ErichFrommUnit2IsLoveanArt?AIFTTR1.2spirit,Frommhashadenormousinfluenceonscholarsandpractitionersinpsychology,sociology,history,economics,anthropology,andtheology.Unit2IsLoveanArt?AIFTTR2.12.WhatisLove?InEnglishwesaytheoneword“love”whereinGreektherearefourwords.Ourword“love”actuallycoversfourkindsoflove,namely：1）agape,thatis,spiritualloveortheloveofGod;（上帝或基督的)对人类之爱，神爱；仁爱(基督教对他人的)爱心）2)storge,thatis,familylove;3)philia,thatis,thelovebetweenfriendswhichweusuallycallbrotherly;and4)eros['iərɔs],thatis,loveexperiencedbetweenamanandawomanwhensexualfeelingsstirbetweenthem.Itisthefourthkindoflovethatsomeoneisexperiencingwhentheytellyoutheyhavefalleninlove.It’sagreatexperience.Itcomesinthatwonderfulrainbowlikesectionofthespectrumofhumanemotion.Unit2IsLoveanArt?AIFTTR2.2It’sstrange,inasense,thaterosisinmanywaysthemosttransientoftheformsofloveandyetitgetsthemostattention.Somepeopleevenseemtomakeittheonezoneinlifethatyou’realwayssupposedtobeattemptingtolandinortryingtostayin.Unit2IsLoveanArt?AIFTTR3.13.Valentine’sDay(February14)TherearevaryingopinionsastotheoriginofValentine’sDay.SomeexpertsstatethatitoriginatedfromSt.Valentine,aRomanwhowasmartyredforrefusingtogiveupChristianity.HediedonFebruary14,269A.D.,thesamedaythathadbeendevotedtolovelotteries.LegendalsosaysthatSt.Valentineleftafarewellnoteforthejailer’sdaughter,whohadbecomehisfriend,andsignedit“FromYourValentine”.OtheraspectsofthestorysaythatSaintValentineservedasapriestatatempleduringthereignofEmperorClaudius,butClaudiusthenhadValentinejailedfordefyinghim.In496A.D.PopeGelasiussetasideFebruary14tohonorSt.Valentine.Unit2IsLoveanArt?AI