success-and-happiness

SUCCESSANDHAPPINESSGROUPMEMBERS:1.Whatissuccess?Thisisanoldtopic.Yeteveryoneunderstandingofsuccessaredifferent,everyonehastheirownsuccesscriteria.A.Somepeoplethinkthathouse,money,car,goodresult,career,asenseofsuperiority,satisfaction,happiness,isasuccess.C.Someevendenytheexistenceofsuccess,hebelievesthattheworldisnotsuccessful,onlyendlesspursuit.B.Somepeoplethinkthatsuccessisyoudidsomethingyouwanttodoanddoit.Fromapersonalpointofviewtoanalyzethewordof“success”.Firstofall,wemustlinkedthesuccesswithevents.Therewouldbenosuccesswithoutevent.Assumingnowthatthesuccessofthesubjectisyou.Thesubjectisyou,thenaturalfeelingsofsuccessismainlyuptoyou.Thentheeventishowitstarted?Wehadtoconsiderwhosucceed.Thenwhydoyoudothat?Youareinadvertentlydooryouwouldhavewantedtohaveplannedorsimplyyoudonotwanttodo?Itdoesmakeyoufeelsuccessfulit?Nextwewillthinkofthebeginning,developmentandtheend.Iwasnot,evenifitdidsucceed,atleastnotthekindyoucancontinueforalongperiodofgoodfeeling.Ifyoudonotwanttodoacertainthing,forsomereasonsoyouhavetodo,whattodoafterthis.Youwillhavethesatisfactionofit?Youwillthinkyouaresuccessfulit?Iwillnot,Ithinkyouwillnottoo.Ifyouthinkitisatrivialmatter,youwantjustbecauseyoumayneedtodo,butitisnotcommendable,youwillhavesuccessfeeling?Youwillbeexcitedtohaveshoutedmysuccess?Iwillnot,Ithinkyouwillnottoo.Sothisthing,youwillreallywanttodo.Youhaveastrongdesiretomakeit.Whenitmade,youhaveastrongsenseofsatisfactionandexcitement.First,thesuccessofthesubjectisyou,thenthethingiswhatyoureallywanttodo,thenyoumadeonthismatter,andthenthemostimportantthingisthatyougetastrongsenseofsatisfaction.Ok,combinationoftheabovediscussion,welookatsuccessintheendiswhat?Therefore,thedefinitionofsuccess:Successmeansthatthesatisfactionandexcitementofdoingsomething,afterthepeopleareveryeagertodo,andthroughtheirowneffortsfinallymadeit.Wecanseethatsuccessisactuallyafeeling.Successisakindoffeelingthatcanbesaidisapositivefeeling.Itiseveryoneachievetheirdesiredstateafteraconfidentfeelingandawaytomeet!Sowedothings,nomatterbigandsmall,aslongasyouwanttodo,andthroughyoureffortsmade,youhappy,thenyouwillbesuccessful.Thosewhobelievethatsuccessdoesnotexist,infact,continuetodefinenewgoals,theywillalsogetpleasurefromwhattheydo,thentheywillbesuccessful.Donotlookatsuccesstoodistant,anddonotlookatsuccesstooeasy.Successrequiresyoureffort.A.Successmeansthattheindividualisbooming:enjoygoodhousing,holiday,travel,economicsecurity,andsothatyourchildcanenjoythemostfavorableconditions.2.Whatsuccessmeans?B.Successmeanstogetpraise,withleadership,andwontherespectofothersintheprofession.C.Successmeansfreedom:freedomfromallkindsoftrouble,fear,frustrationandfailure.Successmeansalotofthings,andaccordingtoeveryone'sunderstanding,theabovedescriptionalsocanbeinfinitelyextendeddown.D.Successmeansself-respect,tothepursuitoflife,greaterhappinessandsatisfaction.First,thesocialrecognitionofthevalueoftheindividual,andtogiveindividualsthecorrespondingreward,suchasmoney,status,housing,respectandsoon.Butinessence,thesuccessofwhatisit?Successinfactcontainstwomeanings.Second,acknowledgetheirownvalue,sofullofself-confidence,asenseoffulfillmentandhappiness.Butpeopletendtoignorethesuccessofthelattermeaning.Werecognizethatonlyinsociety,werespectothers,wehadconsideredasuccessfullife,onlysurroundedbyflowersandapplausewhenweconsideredasthesuccessofthemoment.Infact,apersonisonlyinthattheyhaveahigherratingonandthinktheywillbesuccessful,hecouldreallysucceed.Peopleoftensaywhattoexpect,whattoobtain.Expectmediocrity,yougetmediocrity,expectgreat,theremayreallygreat.3.Howcanwesucceed?Thechancesofsuccessbelongtothepeoplewhodaretoactandhaveconfidence.Ofcourse,inlifethereisanotherside,thatanyonewillencounterunpleasantthings,everyonewillinevitablyleadtotrouble,sorrow,guilt,disappointmentandotheremotions.Facedefeat,someonewillconstantlyremindmyselfalosersowaitforthenextfailure,andfailureisoftencomeagaintothesepeople.Sosometimesself-inflicteddefeat,infrontofrealfailurecomes,theyhaveinmindfortheircapacityoccurredsuspicion,gaveup,waitingforthecomingoffailure.Successfulpeoplealsofail,buttheywillbefacedwithfailuretomaintaintheirself-confidence.Theywillfailasaspecialcase,Theywillsaytothemselves:“ItisnotlikewhatIdidit,Iwouldhavedonebetter”;they’llfindthepositivesidefromthefailure.Theywillcometomakeamendsthroughpositiveaction,toshifthisnegativeemotions.Throughtheseactions,theynotonlyonceagainhasahigherself-evaluation,butalsoforthesuccessofrealityready.Forthem,failureisthemotherofsuccess.Nextisthetimethatmypartner.ThankyouHappinessWhenitcomestohappiness,whatisthefirstwordthatcomestoyourmind?HappinessInternationalDayofHappiness--celebratedthroughouttheworldonthe20thofMarch--recognizetherelevanceofhappinessandwell-beingasuniversalgoals.TheDeclarationspecificallymentionsthreerightswhichhumanbeingspossessbybirthorbynature-life,libertyandthepursuitofhappiness.--FromTheDeclarationofIndependence1.whatishappiness?--Happinessiswhenwhatyouthink,whatyousay,andwhatyoudoareinharmony.--MahatmaGandhi--Happinessisthatstateofconsciousnesswhichp