浅析家庭冷暴力

I浅析家庭“冷暴力”（姓名）（xx专业xx级xx班）【摘要】：随着生活、工作节奏的加快以及人们受教育水平的普遍提高，家庭暴力已不再仅仅表现为传统的拳脚相加式的施暴方式，一种新的隐性暴力——以冷落、漠视等为主要特征的精神虐待正悄然滋长和蔓延。相对于以暴力动作侵犯为主要特征的“热暴力”而言，我们把这种以“无言”或“失语”为特征的精神伤害行为称之为“冷暴力”。在当代中国，“冷暴力”已然成为一个新的不容忽视的家庭问题。家庭“冷暴力”的产生不仅是个人的责任，包括健全人格的缺失和婚恋观的物质主义扭曲，以及沟通能力的缺乏，还包括社会因素的制约，社会变迁下的家庭道德伦理缺失、家庭结构的核心化导致家庭内部纠纷缺少原有的缓冲屏障、经济和工作的压力加剧了家庭内部的矛盾。另外，现有的社会救助机制的缺失和法制的不完善，使得家庭“冷暴力”缺少来自外力的制约。鉴于对家庭“冷暴力”成因的分析，本文从个人、社会、国家和法律四个角度提出应对家庭冷暴力问题的对策，培养健全的人格，要增强自身的自立自决能力、沟通能力、抗压能力和对家庭的责任感，树立健康的婚恋观；完善社会救助机制、提高社会救助水平；健全国家预防和制止家庭暴力机制，为受害者提供避难支持；最为关键的在于健个家庭暴力法律保障机制，明确界定“冷暴力”的概念和标准，完善证明责任的分配，加大对“冷暴力”的惩处和警示，为减少家庭“冷暴力”的发生提供坚强的法律后盾。【关键词】：家庭“冷暴力”特点成因应对策略IIStudyonColdFamilyViolence（name）(InternetNetworkSchoolofEconomicsandManagement，SWUST)Grade：Class：【Abstract】：WiththeaccelerationrhythmoflifeandworkaswellastheuniversalenhancementofPeopleeducationlevel，domesticviolenceisnolongerbehaveastraditionalfistandkickaddingtogethermerely，anewconcealedviolence——snub，ignoreandsuchasthemaincharacteristicofthementalabuseisdevelopingandspreadingquietly.Comparedwiththeviolentactionsasthepropertywhichbeencalled“hotviolence”，Wecallthis“coldviolence”whosecharacteristicPresentas“wordless”or“languagelacking，aimtospirithurt.InChina，the“coldviolence”isbecominganewfamilyissueandcannotbeoverlooked.Thecoldviolenceresultsnotonlyfrompersonalresponsibilityincludingthedeficiencyofhealthypersonality，thedistortionofmaterialisminthevalueonloveandmarriageandthelackofcommunicationskills，butalsofromtherestrictionofsocialfactorsincludingthelackoffamilyethicswiththesocialchange，thedisappearanceoftheoriginalprotectivecushioncausedbythecoretendencyoffamilyformationandthefamilycontradictionsintensifiedbythepressureoftheeconomyandthework.Inaddition，thedeficiencyoftheexistingsocialreliefmechanismandtheimperfectionoflegalsystemIIImakethecoldviolenceabsentfromtherestrictionoftheexternalforce.Basedontheanalysisofthecausesandeffectsofcoldviolence，thepaperputsforwardsomecountermeasurestodealwiththedomesticcoldviolenceproblemfromthepersonal，social，nationalandlegalangles.Firstly，tocultivateasoundpersonality；toenhancetheabilityofindependence，self-determination，communication，anti-pressureandthesenseofresponsibilitytothefamily；tosetupcorrectandhealthyvalueonmarriageandlove.Secondly，toperfectthesocialreliefmechanism；toimprovethelevelofsocialassistance.Thirdly，tostrengthenthenationalmechanismforpreventingandstoppingdomesticviolence；toprovideasylumsupportforthevictims.Finally，themostimportantthingistoimprovethelawsafeguardmechanismofdomesticviolence，todefinetheconceptofcoldviolenceandstandards，toimprovetheallocationoftheburdenofproof，toincreasepunishmentandwarningagainstthecoldviolence，soastoprovidestronglegalbackingforreducingcoldviolence.【Keywords】：domesticcoldviolence；characteristics；；causesandeffects；countermeasures1目录一、家庭“冷暴力”的界定及其表现........................................................................3（一）家庭“冷暴力”的界定.............................................................................4（二）家庭“冷暴力”的表现形式.....................................................................41、情感疏远....................................................................................................42、性惩罚........................................................................................................53、经济制裁....................................................................................................64、交往和精神的双重控制............................................................................6二、家庭“冷暴力”的特点及危害..........................................................................7（一）家庭“冷暴力”的特点.............................................................................71、发生群体的高学历性................................................................................72、目的明确性................................................................................................73、行为类型多样性........................................................................................74、行为隐蔽性................................................................................................85、危害后果严重性........................................................................................8（二）家庭“冷暴力”的危害.............................................................................81、夫妻双方两败俱伤....................................................................................82、对孩子的身心造成极大伤害....................................................................93、成为社会危害的因素................................................................................9三、家庭“冷暴力”的原因分析................................................................................9（一）个人因素.....................................................................................................91、健全人格的缺失......................................................................................102、婚姻观的扭曲..........................................................................................103、沟通不畅引发信任危机..........................................................................11（二）社会根源.................