social etiquette 社交礼仪

（一）操作方法SocialEtiquette——madeby801flowersIdon‘tlikethosewhodoesnotpayattentiontotheetiquette.Ibelievetheothershavethesameopinion.——JackWelch.•Psychologist’sresearchshowedthatfirstimpressioncankeepsevenyears,andit’shardtochangeonceitisfomed.Thereisnosecondchanceforyou.•Thisisaworldowningtwominutes,youjusthaveaminuteshowthemwhoyouare,theotherminuteyoushouldtrytoletthemlikeyou.—RobertpoundContentsEverydaymannersWesterntablemannersweddingceremonyInvitingmannersGreetingsShakingHandsMakingIntroductionsPart1EverydayMannersGreetings•“Hello!Goodmorning!”•lookateachotherandnodhead•Waveyourhandswithawarmsmile•朝鲜人打招呼行鞠躬礼，表示尊敬和谢意。•Koreansgreetingisabowtoexpressrespectandgratitude.•泰国人打招呼男士双手在额前，女士双手在胸前。•Thai,themaleplacehandsinfronthead,femaleplacehandsonthechesttogreeteachother.•日本人以脱帽子鞠躬来打招呼，稍微低头，眼睛向下。•theJapanesehatoffinordertosayhello,slightlybowedandeyesdown.•毛利人碰鼻子来打招呼，次数越多，时间越久，表示越亲密。•Maorigreetingistotouchthenoses,themorethenumberandthelonger,themoreintimate.•Australianofftenshakehandstosayhello.•澳大利人打招呼是握手。•马来西亚打招呼是两人双手交窝，双手微触额头一下，双手微触胸前一下。•Malaysia,thetwopeoplehandshandovertoholdforawhile.thehandsaretinytotouchforeheadandthechestforawhile.•Indonesian'sfriendsistopressdownachesttosayhelloeachotherwiththerighthand,toordinarypeoplethentoshakehands.•印尼人熟人是用右手按住胸口互相问好，对一般人则以握手问好。•ForAmericans，Womenmaybetightlyhugtoeachotherwhentheymeet;Andinsomeupper-classsocialcircle,kisseachotheronthecheekisacommoncourtesy.Butexceptfamilymembersandclosefriends,Americansusuallydon'tgiveoutwholesalehugs.对于美国人而言，女性们可能会在见面时彼此紧抱一下以示友好；而且在某些上流社交圈里，轻吻对方的面颊是很普遍的礼节。但除了对家人与好友外，美国人通常不会经常随便拥抱他人.美国人喜欢说的是：•-Howareyoudoing？-I'mdoinggood.•How'severythinggoing?What'sup?France•一般说来，男士之间，主要是边握手边打招呼。关系比较好的女士之间，或男女间，就主要采取贴面礼或亲吻礼•Generallyspeaking,menmainlyistoshakehandsandsayhello.•Thewaybetweenlady,orbetweenmenandwomenwithgoodrelationshipmainlyadoptbijousorkissing.•非洲通行的打招呼方式--举起右手，手掌向著对方，目的是表示“我的手并没有握石头。”它是在表示：“没有武器。”是友好的象徵。•thewayofgreetingforAfricanistoraisehisrighthand,palmtowardeachother,thepurposeistosaymyhanddidnotholdstone.andnoweapons.ThatisasymboloffriendshipWorldHelloDay•Everyyear,November21isWorldHelloDay.Theobjectiveistosayhellototenpeopleontheday.Bygreetingothers,themessageisforworldleaderstousecommunicationratherthanusingforcetosettleconflicts.•世界问候日”（WorldHelloDay）开始于1973年11月21日，为促进埃及和以色列之间的和平（当时正值第四次中东战争期间），来自澳大利亚的姆可马克与米切尔兄弟两人，自费印刷了大量有关问候的宣传材料寄给世界各国政府首脑及世界知名人士，向他们阐述设立“世界问候日”的重要意义，扩大“世界问候日”的影响，第一个“世界问候日”诞生。Howmuchdoyouknow?Handshakingetiquette•Awomanoffersherhandfirst•Anolderpersoninitiatesahandshakewithayoungerone•Themoreimportantperson,ortheonetowhomsomeoneisbeingintroduced,isthefirsttoofferhisorherhandWhataretherulesformakingintroductions?Therulesofmakingintroductions•Amanisalwaysintroducedtoawoman•Ayoungpersonisalwaysintroducedtoanolderperson•AlessimportantpersonisalwaysintroducedtoamoreimportantpersonContentsEverydaymannersWesterntablemannersweddingceremonyInvitingmannersTipsServingorderWesterntablewareWesterntablemannersServingorderstartermaincoursedrinkssoupdessertWesterntablewareWesterntableware•Washyouhandsbeforeeachmeal.•Knifeandspoonareplacedtotherightoftheplate.Theforkisontheleft.Don’tmakeanysoundwhenyoueatduringthemealAttable,youshouldtrytospeakquietlyandsmilealot,butdonotlaughallthetimeDon’tholdyourcookerswhenyoudosomegestures.Ifyourcookerdroponthefloor,don’tpickitupyourself.callthewaitertodoitforyouandchangeanotherone.•Openthenapkinandputitonyourlapbeforeeating.•Youshouldusetheforkwithyourlefthandandtheknifewithyourrighthand.•Don’tdrinktoomuch!•Talktothepeoplebesideyou,butdon’tspeaktooloudly.•Youcanuseyourhandtoeatchicken.•Youeatonlyfromyourplate.Tablemannerschangeovertime.Theyfollowthefashionoftheday.Besides,tablemannersareonlyimportantatformaldinnerparties.Ifyou'renotsurewhattodo,youcanalwaysfollowyourhosts.Althoughgoodmannersalwaysmakeyoulookgood,youdonotneedtoworryaboutalltheseruleswhilehavingdinnerwithyourfriendsorfamilies.ContentsEverydaymannersWesterntablemannersweddingceremonyInvitingmannersPart3.WeddingCeremonyCeremonialAttire(礼服）PresentAGiftQ:Howdoyoudressforaweddingceremony?a.Womenguests:street-lengthafternoonorcocktaildresses（常礼服）withgloves，headcoveringsareoptional（随意的）.Colorsarepreferable（更合适的）toblackorwhiteA.DaytimeWeddingB.EveningWeddinga.Women:dependingonlocalcustom,wearlongorshortdresses.b.WomenMenLongdressesTuxedos(无尾常礼服)ShortdressesTuxedosordarksuitsb.MenGuest:Darksuits,andcocktailsuitsConservative(保守的）shirtsTiesAboutGiftsQ1:Areweddingpresentsaddressedtothebridealone,ortoboththebrideandgroom?A.Beforethewedding,isaddressedtothebridealoneB.Afterthewedding,isaddressedtoboththebrideandthegroomQ2:Whenandwhereareweddinggiftsdelivered?Generally,giftsaredeliveredtothebride’shomebeforethedayofthewedding.Q3:Aregiftsbroughttoaweddingreception?Insomeareasandamongcertainethnicalgroup(种族),itiscustomary(习惯上的)totakeyourgifttotheweddingreceptionratherthansenditaheadoftime.Giftsareusuallyplacedonatablepreparedforthem,assoonasyouarrive.ContentsEverydaymannersWesterntablemannersweddingceremonyInvitingmannersInvit