the_wrong_kind_of_small_talk 公开课

Module1TheWrongKindofSmallTalkDesignedbySophieTheWrongKindofSmallTalk•Q:Whatkindofsmalltalkcanbecalledthewrongkind?•Theonethatmakesothersembarrassed/angry/upset1-2findsentencesabouthercharacteristics/shortcomings)outspokenthe______kindofsmalltalkneverlearn____________wrongbasicrulesofsocialcommunicationasaconsequencemadesystematicmistakesitwasnocoincidencethatShewasn’tagoodsaleswoman.ReadParagraphs1-2quietlyandcarefullyandthenfillintheform.(onlyoneword)BriefIntroductiontoEstherGreenbaumJobCharacterMottoShortcomingAsaleswomanOutspokenEverytimeIopenmymouth,Iputmyfootinit.Shehadacompleteabsenceofsmalltalk.Esther1.Amaturewoman(Paras.3-5)2.A_________(Paras.6-8)3.Asalesman(Paras.9-10)4.A________(Paras.11-14)5.Averyfamouswriter(Paras.15)6.Ayoungman(Paras.16-18)7.Her_______(Paras.19-22)&typistclerkfriendAccordingtothestories,fillintheblanks.CarefulreadingParas.3-22Dialogue1Esther:Nicetomeetyou.Howoldareyou?Customer:...E:Forty?Forty-five?Youlookmucholder.Andyourfriend...she'solderthanyou,butshelooksmuchyounger.1.Whydidthecustomerlookawkward?2.IfyouwereEsther,youmetyouroldcustomer,whatshouldyousaytoher?Becauseshedidn’twanttosayherage.Youlookniceinthisredcoat.Anicehaircut,isn’tit?…3-5Dialogue2Esther:Hey!When'syourbabydue?Typist:Actually,I'mnotpregnant.E:Oh,sorry,Justputtingonalittleweight,huh?1.Guessthemeaningof“whenisyourbabydue?”2.DidEstherreallyfeelsorrywhensheknewthetypistwasn’tpregnant?No.Withoutanyapology6-8Dialogue3Esther:Forgether!Shewasacompletefool.Noonelikedheranyway.Salesman:...Dialogue4Esther:Nicehaircut,Howmuchdiditcost?Clerk:I'drathernotsay.E:Well,anyhow,eitheryoupaidtoomuchoryoupaidtoolittle.1.Whathappenedtothesalesman?2.Whatwashermistake?Hewasgoingthroughaverymessydivorceandwasverydepressed.Shewasnevercautiousaboutotherpeople’sfeelings.9-10Dialogue5Esther:Hey,whatacoincidence!You'rewrittingabookandI'mreadingone!你在写一本书，而我恰恰也在读一本。ThebookyouarewritingissimilartotheoneI’mreading.Maybeyou’recopying…Dialogue6Youngman:Iguessthecompanychosemesothey'dgetsomepeaceintheoffice.Esther:No,Iguesstheychoseyoutodiscourageyoufromspendingyourwholecareerwithus.他笑着说：“公司选择我是为了他们能在公司里得到一点安宁。”埃斯特亲切地回答:“不是的,我想他们之所以选中你是因为不想让你一辈子都跟着我们干。discouragesbfromdoingsth劝阻某人做某事;打消某人做某事的念头...Dialogue7Esther:Doyourememberthatguyyouweredating?Friend:Whathappenedtohim?Esther:Youknow,theuglyone.Friend:Esther,I'dlikeyoutomeetmyhusband.Charles,thisis...Esther:Hey,soyoumarriedhim.Whatdoyouthinkofher?2.Estherwasnevercautiousaboutotherpeople'sfeelings.3.Muchofthetime,Esthersaidthefirstthingtocomeintoherhead.4.ThetroublewithEstherwasshesaidwhatshethoughtanddidn'tthinkaboutwhatshesaid.1.Esthershouldn’ttalkaboutotherpeople’sprivatematters,usingveryunpleasantwords.Whatcanyoulearnfromher?Developsocialskillsandyouwillbeasuccessfulman.Estherwasasaleswomanwhohadacomplete_______ofsmalltalk.Her______wasthateverytimesheopenedhermouth,sheputher____initandmadehercustomers_________.Oncesheaskedatypistwhowasgettingweightwhenherbabywasdue.Estherwasnever________aboutotherpeople’sfeelings.Onceshethoughttheyoungmanwaschoseninorderto__________himfromworkingwiththem.Shealsomadeherfriendsembarrassed.Asaresult,wherevershewent,shewasunpopular.Summaryabsencemottofootawkwardcautiousdiscourage