大学英语口语课件love_and_marriage

LoveandMarriage【HappyAprilFools'Day】April1isnotanationalholiday,butiswidelyrecognizedandcelebratedasadaywhenpeopleplaypracticaljokesandhoaxesoneachother.What’slove?Lovemeansneverhavingtosayyou'resorry.----LoveStoryWhatareyourmajorconsiderationswhenyouarechoosingyourBForGF?Andwhy?AppearanceHeightPersonalityOccupationFamilyEducationOtherfactors…Thesweetestthingsyoucandoforagirlarethelittlethingsthatletherknowshe'sinyourheart&onyourmind.你能为一个女孩儿做的最甜蜜的事，就是从细枝末节中让她知道，你一直想着她，念着她。Wesometimesignorethosewhoadoreus,adorethosewhoignoreus,lovethosewhohurtus,andhurtthosewholoveus.我们有时无视爱慕自己的人，却爱慕无视我们的人；爱上伤害我们的人，却去伤害爱着我们的人。Theonewhotrulyloveswilldefinitelyneverleaveyou.Thoughhehasthousandsofreasonstogiveyouup,hewouldalwaysfindonetohangon.真正爱你的人绝不会离开你。他纵有千百个理由放弃，却也总会找一个理由坚持下去。We’dfadeintosomeoneatleastonetimeinlife，notforanyresult,company,ownershipevenlove，justformeetingyouinmymostbeautifuldays.-----一生至少该有一次，为了某个人而忘了自己，不求有结果，不求同行，不求曾经拥有，甚至不求你爱我。只求在我最美的年华里，遇到你。我捧你的时候，你是玻璃杯子。我松手的时候，你是玻璃渣子。WhenIloveyou,youareadelicateglassheldinmyhands.WhenIleaveyou,youarebrokenglassscatteredontheground.【各种love】deep~深深的爱;chaste~贞洁的爱;devoted~专一的爱;loyal~忠诚的爱;tender~温柔的爱;sincere~真挚的爱;fervent~热烈的爱;burning~炽热的爱;intense~强烈的爱;wild~狂热的爱;~atfirstsight一见钟情;~story爱情故事;~triangle三角恋爱;~affair风流韵事。【各种恋】初恋PuppyLove/FirstLove，单恋/暗恋unrequitedlove，暗恋haveacrushon,网恋Internetlove,热恋honeymoonphase,苦恋bitterlove,师生恋teacher-studentlove,同性恋homosexuality['hɒməʊ,seksjʊ'ælətɪ],三角恋lovetriangle,夕阳恋sunsetlove,双性恋bisexuality[baɪsekʃu'æləti],姐弟恋toyboylove【搭讪佳句】1.YoulooklikesomeoneIknow.Haven'twemetbefore?你跟我一个朋友长得好象。我们之前见过吧?2.That‘sagreathaircut.你的发型很不错。3.Areyouherealone?一个人吗?4.Ilostmynumber,canIhaveyours?我把我的电话号码弄丢了，你可以把你的告诉我吗?【“名花/草有主了”怎么表达】比较常见的表达有bespokenfor或betaken，指已有人拥有所有权的已被预订。She'salreadytaken.她已经有男朋友了。或者说offthemarket例：Yo,dude.You'dbetterquitchasingafterher.She'soffthemarket.老兄，你最好别追她了，她已经名花有主了。【如何用语英语表达你现在的感情状态】1.single单身；2.inarelationship恋爱中；3.engaged已订婚；4.married已婚；5.inanopenrelationship开放式关系；6.widowed['widəud]丧偶；7.separated['sɛpəretɪd]分居状态；8.divorced[dɪ'vɔrst]已离异；9.domestic[də'mɛstɪk]partnership未婚同居关系；10.CivilUnion同性婚姻【分手理由】1.I‘vemetsomeoneelse./There‘ssomeoneelse.我另结新欢了。2.You’rereallytoogoodforme./Idon‘tdeserveyou.我配不上你。3.Ijustdon‘tloveyouanymore.我不爱你了。4.Ireallydon’twannabetieddown.我不想被束缚。5.Themagic'sgonefromourrelationship.我们之间的爱情魔力已经不见了。It‘sover.我们缘分已尽。We‘renotmeantforeachother.我们命中注定不适合。Ineedsometimealone.我需要一个人过一阵子。We'rebetteroffasfriends.我们做朋友比较好【wedding】求婚:proposal媒人:matchmaker订婚:engagement未婚夫:fiance[fi'ɑːnse]未婚妻:fiancee[,fiən'se]婚宴:weddingfeast婚纱:weddinggown新郎:groom新娘:bride男傧相:bestman女傧相:bridesmaid证婚人:witnessofwedding婚誓:weddingvows花童:flowergirl嫁妆:dowry['daʊri]蜜月:honeymoonMarriage再婚:remarry重婚:bigamy['bɪɡəmi]试婚:trialmarriage包办婚姻:arrangedmarriage近亲结婚:intermarriage老少配:MayandDecembermarriage如意郎君:Mr.Right闪婚:flashmarriage一夫一妻:monogamy[mə'nɑɡəmi]离婚:divorceHaveyoueverattendedawedding?Howdoyouthinkaboutit?Canyoudescribeitbriefly?bride新娘bridegroom(groom)新郎groomsman(bestman)伴郎bridesmaid伴娘weddingceremony结婚典礼weddinginvitation婚礼请柬churchwedding教堂婚礼traditionalChinesewedding传统中式婚礼outdoorwedding户外婚礼weddingreception婚宴weddingdress婚纱、结婚礼服Weddingmarch婚礼进行曲honeymoon蜜月【“我不嫁给你”各种恶搞说法】高中水平:Iwillnevermarryyou.高考:NeverwillImarryyou.四级:YouarethelastmanIamwillingtomarry.六级:UndernocircumstanceswillImarryyou.GRE:Ifyouwerethelastmanintheworld,Iwoulddefinitelyremainsingle.I______,takeyou______,tobemyweddedwife(husband).Tohaveandtohold,fromthisdayforward,forbetter,forworse,forricher,forpoorer,insicknessorinhealth,toloveandtocherish,‘tilldeathdousapart.AndheretoIpledgeyoumyfaithfulness.WeddingvowsWeddingtraditionsInsomewesterncountries,bridesaresupposedtogathersomethingold,somethingnew,somethingborrowedandsomethingblue,andtocarryorwearthemontheirweddingdayastheywalkdowntheaisle.ItissaidthattheaverageexpensesofChineseweddinghasrisentoRMB120,000(includingthecostofpre-weddingphotos,weddingreception,andhoneymoontrip…)•What’youropiniononthehugecostofawedding?FreeDiscussionHowwillyouplanyourownwedding?DifferentunderstandingofloveandmarriagebetweenChineseandWesterners…WestChinaAbsolutelypersonalissueFamilybackgroundsocialrelations“Marryyourmatch”Love＞Marriage↓HighdivorcerateMarriage＞LoveMarriage=responsibilitiesanddutiesDescriptionofadate:Pretty,cute,smart,humorous…Descriptionofadate:Height,Occupation,Educationbackground,Family…LoveatfirstsighttransientTimebreedslove.LastlongIndependencyineconomyandthoughtAlliscommon./ShareeverythingTotalequalityHousehusbandMenshouldhandleexternalmatters,whilewomenlookafterthehomeMarryYou---BrunoMarsIfyourparentsarestronglyopposedtoyourmarriagewithsomebody,whatwillyoudo?FreeDiscussionDebating:CollegestudentsfallinginloveTheclaim(theProposition):Collegeloveaffairwilldomoregoodthanharm.Referencearguments:toenrichthelifeexperience;topromotethegrowthofyourmind;tosupporteachother;pureenvironment/withoutinterference;plentyoftimeformutualunderstanding;easiertofindtruelove;firm