what did you miss

Whatdidyoumissinthelife?Step1FreeTalkWhatdidyoumissinthelife?Step2ListeningListentotheradiowithoutscript(脚本):‘Imissedanewjobopportunity.'Whenshewas35,thehusbandangrilytoldherthathehadjustmissedthebus.At45,thehusbandsadlysaid:'Imissedtheopportunityseeingmyclosedrelativebeforehislastbreath.'At55,thehusbandsaiddisappointingly:Imissedagoodchancetoretire.At65,thehusbandhurriedlyreplied:'Imissedadentalappointment.'At75,thewifedidnotaskthehusbandanymore,thehusbandwaskneelinginfrontoftheverysickwife.Rememberingthequestionthewifeusedtoaskhim,thistimeheaskedthewifethesamequestion.Thewife,withasmileandpeacefullook,replied:'Inthislife,Ididnotmisshavingyou!Thehusbandwasfulloftears.Healwaysthoughtthattheycouldbetogetherforever.Hewasalwaysbusywithworkandtrifles.Somuchsohehadneverbeenthoughtfultohiswife.Thehusbandhuggedthewifetightlyandsaid:'Over50years,howIhadallowedmyselftomissyourdeeploveforme.'Inthebusycitylife,therearemanypeoplewhoarealwaysbusywithwork.Thesepeoplerevolvetheirlivesaroundtheirjobs,thesepeoplesacrificealltheirtimesandhealthtomeetthesocialexpectations.Theyareunwillingtospendtimesonhealthcare.Theymisstheopportunitytobewiththeirchildrenintheirgrowingup.Theyneglectthelovedoneswhocareforthem,andalsotheirhealth.Nobodyknowswhatisgoingtohappenoneyearfromnow.Lifeisnotpermanent,soalwaysliveinthenow.Expressyourgratitudetoyourlovedonesinwords.Showyourcarewithactions.Treateverydayasthelastepisodeoflife.Inthisway,whenyouaregone,yourlovedoneswouldhavenothingtofeelsorryabout.Readtogether,bothEnglishandChinesedespondentlyretiredentalappointmentkneeltriflethoughtfultightlyrevolvearoundsacrificeexpectationneglectpermanentgratitudeepisodeStep4AppreciateitagainbylookingattheChinesescript.•在生活中，你错过了什么？•妻子25岁的时候这样问丈夫。丈夫沮丧地回答：“我错过了一个新的工作机会。”•35岁时，丈夫生气地说他错过了公交车。•45岁时，丈夫悲伤地说：“我错过了见至亲最后一面的机会。”•55岁时，丈夫失望地说：“我错过了一个退休的好机会。”•65岁时，丈夫匆匆地回答：“我错过了和牙医的预约。”•75岁，妻子不再问丈夫同样的问题，丈夫跪在病重的妻子面前，想起以前妻子常常问起的那个问题，这次他也问了妻子同样的问题，妻子笑了笑，一脸平静地说：“我这一生，没有错过你！”•丈夫满眼泪水，他总是认为可以和妻子白头到老，于是总是忙于工作和琐事，从没在意过妻子。他紧紧地抱住妻子说：“这50多年来，我怎么能允许自己错过了你对我的爱呢。”•在繁忙的城市生活中，有人总是忙于工作。他们整天围着工作转，为了达到他人的期望，牺牲了自己的时间和健康。他们不愿花时间来关注自己的健康，在孩子成长的过程中错失了与之共享天伦之乐的机会。他们忽视了那些关心他们的人，以及他们的健康。•没有人知道一年后会发生什么事情。生命不是永恒的，所以活在当下吧。把你对爱人的感谢说出来，用行动证明你关心他们。把每一天当作人生的最后一个篇章，只有这样，当你离开时，你爱的人们才会没有遗憾。Step5Let’sreadthelastpara.togetherwithlove.Nobodyknowswhatisgoingtohappenoneyearfromnow.Lifeisnotpermanent,soalwaysliveinthenow.Expressyourgratitudetoyourlovedonesinwords.Showyourcarewithactions.Treateverydayasthelastepisodeoflife.Inthisway,whenyouaregone,yourlovedoneswouldhavenothingtofeelsorryabout.Step6Chooseonlyonesentencethatyoulikebestandsharewithusyourreasons.