Love-or-Money

LoveorMoney,WhichOneYouChoose?Recently,withthereleaseoftheTVseriescalledNakedWedding,aheateddiscussionisarousedontheissueofloveandmoneyinamarriage.Somepeoplewhoholdthebeliefthatfamiliesofequalstandingcanbematchedthinkthatmoneyisthemostimportant.However,notafewpeoplebelievethatlovesurpassesthemoneyandisthefoundationofourmarriage.Frommyapart,loveisamustwhilemoneyisaneedinamarriage.Tobeginwith,loveistheguaranteeofahappymarriage.Itisbecauseboysandgirlsloveeachotherdeeplythattheymarryinhand.Atthispoint,someonemaywonderifthereisloveinanarrangedmarriage.WhatIwanttoemphasizeisthateveninanarrangedmarriage,loveisgraduallydevelopedandstillexistthroughouttheirwholemarriagelife.What’smore,loveisthespiceofourmarriagelife.Amarriagewithoutloveisjustlikeastreamwithoutflowingwaterandsomedayitwilldryup.Inourlife,somecouplesarereluctanttocometogetherwithouttrueloveandtheyoftenquarrelwitheachotherandfinallyendtheirmarriagebyadivorce.However,moneyisalsoneededinamarriage.AsafamousChinesesayinggoeseverythinggoeswrongforthepoorcouple.Oncewegetmarried,weneedtoshoulderourownresponsibilityforbothourpartnerandourparentsorparentsinlaw.Whentheylosetheircapabilitytoearntheirliving,weneedtocarethem.Howcanwedealthiswithoutenoughmoney?Somoneyisnecessarytoamarriage,whichdoesn’tmeanmarriageshouldbebasedonmoneyandisalsodifferentfrommoneyworship.Onthewhole,loveshouldbegiventheprioritywhenwebuildourownfamily.Moneycanbeearnedgraduallywhiletruelovecannotbeboughtbymoney.