英语泛读教程4__课文翻译

第一单元第一篇Goodwordscostnothing,butareworthmuch,saidThomasFuller,the17thcenturyBritishscholar.“良言不费分文,但价值甚大,”托马斯说丰满,17th世纪英国学者。Theyservetogiveencouragementandsmoothawaydifferencesandmisunderstandings,asthisarticleexplains.他们服役给予鼓励和克服差异和误解,因为这篇文章解释了。MaybewhenI'mahundred,I'llgetusedtohavingeverythingIdotakenforgranted,ayounghomemakerconfidedtoherneighbor.“也许当我一百岁时,我就会习惯吃我做的一切视为理所当然,”一个年轻的家庭主妇被任命她的邻居。IfBillwouldcomplimentmeonceinawhile,he'dmakemylifemuchhappier.“如果法案恭维我,偶尔也好,他会使我的生活更幸福。”Fewofusrealizehowmuchweneedencouragement.我们很少有人意识到我们是多么需要鼓励的。Yetwemustbaskinthewarmthofapprovalnowandthenorloseourself-confidence.但是我们仍然必须沐浴在温暖的批准,否则现在失去自己的自信。Allofusneedtofeelneededandadmired.我们都需要去感觉需要和赞赏。Butunlesswehearwordsofpraisefromsomeoneelse,howcanweknowthatwearevaluedfriendsorco-workers?但是如果我们听到别人的赞扬之词,我们怎样才能知道我们有价值的朋友或同事呢?Anyonewhowantstoimprovehisrelationshipswithothersneedonlyshowasympatheticunderstanding.任何人想要提高自己的和其他人的关系之间只需要显示一个有同情心的理解。Thewaytoexpressthisunderstandingandtogiveothersthefeelingofimportanceandworthinessboilsdowntothis:alwayslookforsomethingintheotherpersonyoucanadmireandpraise--andtellhimaboutit.这种理解的方式来表达,给别人的感觉,重要性和价值归结为:总是寻找一些其他的人,你可以欣赏和赞美——告诉他这件事。Weeachhaveamentalpictureofourselves,aself-image.我们每个人都有自己的脑海里,一个自我形象。Tofindlifereasonablysatisfying,thatself-imagemustbeonewelivewith,onewecanlike.去发现生活相当满足、自我形象必须是一个我们生活在一起的人,一个我们可以像。Whenweareproudofourself-image,wefeelconfidentandfreetobeourselves.当我们以我们的队伍为荣的自我形象,我们相信自由是我们自己。Wefunctionatourbest.我们最好的一面。我们功能Whenweareashamedofourself-image,weattempttohideitratherthanexpressit.当我们自觉惭愧我们自己,我们尝试把它藏起来,而不是把它表达出来。Webecomehostileandhardtogetalongwith.我们变得敌意和很难相处。Amiraclehappenstothepersonwhoseself-esteemhasbeenraised.会发生奇迹的人的自尊已经复活了。Hesuddenlylikesotherpeoplebetter.他突然喜欢其他的人更好地。Heiskinderandmorecooperativewiththosearoundhim.他是仁慈和更多的合作与他周围的那些人。Praiseisthepolishthathelpskeephisself-esteembrightandsparkling.赞美是波兰才使他的自尊心明亮晶莹剔透。Whathasthistodowithyourgivingpraise?这有什么用你的赞美?Alot.Youhavetheabilitytoperformthatkindofmiracleinanotherperson.一个lot.You有能力执行这样的奇迹在另一个人。Whenyouaddtohisself-esteem,youmakehimwanttolikeyouandtocooperatewithyou.当你加入他的自尊,你让他想爱你,与你携手合作。Inaclassicbitofadvice,LordChesterfieldsuggestedtohissonthathefellowtheexampleoftheDuckdeNivernois:Youwillperceivethathemakespeoplepleasedwithhimbymakingthemfirstpleasedwiththemselves.在一个经典的一些建议,主切斯特了他的建议,他的儿子为例Nivernois鸭德:“你会认识到他使人满意他通过使他们第一次满意自己。”Theeffectsofpraisecanbegreatindeed.赞美的影响可以确定无疑。Anewministercalledtoachurchjokinglyreferredtoastherefrigerator,decidedagainstcriticizinghiscongregationforitscoolnesstowardstrangers.一个新部长被召到教堂开玩笑地称为“冰箱”,决定不指责他的会众面前它对于陌生人冷淡。Instead,hebebanwelcomingvisitorsfromthepulpitandtellinghisflockhowfriendlytheywere.相反,他beban接待来访者从讲坛,告诉自己的羊群怎样友好他们。Timeaftertimeheheldupapictureofthechurchashewantedittobe,givinghispeopleareputationtoliveupto.一次又一次地让他举起了一幅巨大的教堂,因为他想做的,让他百姓的名声,使其与之相配。Thecongregationthawed.会众解冻。Praisetransformedtheice-cubemembersintowarmheartedhumanbeings,hesaid.“赞扬改变了颗冰块或成员带入人类温情的,”他说。Sincerityisessentialingivingpraise.真诚的赞美是十分必要的。Itlendspotencytoacompliment.它把一个恭维。效力Cominghomeafterahardday'swork,themanwhoseesthefacesofhischildrenpressedagainstthewindow,watchingforhim,canwaterhissoulwiththeirsilentbutgoldenopinion.回家后,一天的辛苦工作的人,看到他的孩子们的脸紧贴着窗外,看着他,他们自己的灵魂能水无声但黄金的意见。Praisehelpsruboffthesharpedgesofdailycontact.赞美有助于掉色刀边上的日常联系。Nowhereisthistruerthaninmarriage.没有哪个国家比在婚姻。Yetitisperhapsinthehomethatthevalueofpraiseislessappreciatedthanelsewhere.然而,这也许是在家里的价值比其他地方更少感谢赞美。Thespousewhoisalerttosaythehearteningthingattherightmomenthaslearnedoneofthemostimportantrequirementsforahappyfamilylife.配偶谁是提醒说令人振奋的事情正好学会最重要的条件之一,一个幸福的家庭生活。Children,especially,arehungryforpraise,reassuranceandappreciation.儿童,特别是,都渴望赞美,安全感和欣赏。Ayoungmothertoldherpastorofaheartrendingincident:一位年轻的母亲告诉她的牧师令人伤感的事:Mylittleboyoftenmisbehaves,andIhavetoscoldhim.“我的小男孩常常言语,我不得不骂他。Butonedayhehasbeenespeciallygood.但是有一天,他一直特别好。Thatnight,afterItruckedhiminbedandstarteddownstairs,Iheardhimcrying.那天晚上,我躺在床上,开始交换他下楼时,我听到他在哭。Ifoundhisheadburiedinthepillow.我发现他的头埋在枕头里。Betweensobsheasked,'Mommy,haven'tIbeenaprettyboytoday?'他啜泣之间问道:“妈妈,我还没成为一个漂亮的男孩,今天好吗?”Thatquestionwentthroughmelikeaknife,themothersaid.“这个问题经过我像刀子一样,”妈妈说。Ihadbeenquicktocorrecthimwhenhedidwrong,butwhenhehadbehaved,Ihadn'tnoticed.“我已很快纠正他当他做错了,可是当他的表现之后,我没注意到。Ihadputhimtobedwithoutawordofpraise.我已经把他放到床没有一句赞扬。”Takethetroubletofindsomethingtocommendinyourchild,andyouwilldiscoverthatbothhisabilityandattitudewillimprove.不嫌麻烦来找点东西来表彰在你的孩子,你会发现他个人的能力和态度会提高。Encouragementthoughpraiseisthemosteffectivemethodofgettingpeopletodotheirbest.鼓励虽然赞美是最有效的方法让人们尽了自己最大的努力。Asartistsfindjoyingivingbeautytoothers,soanyonewhomasterstheartofpraisingwillfindthatitblessesthegiverasmuchasthereceiver.作为艺术家找到快乐美丽给别人,所以谁掌握了艺术的赞扬会发现它不但赐福施予者一样多接收器。Thereistruthinthesaying,Flowersleavepartoftheirfragranceinthehandthatbestowsthem.真理是存在的﹐在说:“花离开他们的部分香味赋予他们的手。”第一单元第三篇Ineverlearnedhateathome,orshame.我从未听说过恨在家里或羞耻。Ihadtogotoschoolforthat.我不得不去上学的。IwasaboutsevenyearsoldwhenIgotmyfirstbiglesson.我大约七岁的时候,我得