myths-about-relationships

Unit2MythsaboutRelationshipsByYanRenming1.ScanpassageBtoanswerthequestion:Whatmythsarementioned?Threecommonmythsaboutrelationshipsarementioned:Loveatfirstsight,Honestyisthebestpolicy.Oppositesattract,MythsaboutRelationships2ReadpassageBandcirclethebestanswer.①Whatdoescommonmythmeaninthepassage?a.Atraditionalstoryortale.b.Apopularbutwrongideaaboutsomething.c.Afamousandwonderfulideaaboutsomehing.②Basedonthepassage,whydomanypeoplebelievethatoppositesattract?a.It’sexcitingtobewithsomeonewhoisverydifferent.b.You’relesslikelytohaveconflictswithsomeonewhoisverydifferent.c.It’sannoyingtobewithsomeonewhoissimilar.③Thebeliefthatweshouldalwaysbehonestwithourpartnersmightnotwork.Thereasonisthat______________.a.ifwealwayshonest,ourpartnermightstartlyingtousinsteadb.it’smoreexcitingtolietoapartnerthantomakehimorherhappyc.Sometimesbeingcompletelyhonestmighthurtthefeelingsofourpartmer3CompletethefollowingtablebasedonpassageB.CommonMythsAuthor’sSuggestionsOppositesattract.Loveatfirstsight.Honestyisthebestpolicy.Rememberthattheattractioncanoftenfadeasquicklyasitarrives.Decidewhat’smostimportanttoyouandfindsomeonewhohasasimilarlist.Remembertotellthetruthabouttheimportantthings,thesmall,unimportantlieswon’tbeproblems.4CompletetheoutlineofpassageB.Introduction:Hereareseveralcommonmythsaboutrelationshipthatpeoplebelieve.Myth1:Oppositesattract.Myth2:Loveatfirstsight.Myth3:Honestyisthebestpolicy.Conclusion:It’simportanttolookathowrelationshipsworkinaclearandlogicalwayandtobelievefactsinsteadofmyths.5ThreekindsofcommonmythsareintroducedinpassageB.Doyouknowanyothercommonmythsaboutrelationships?Makeanoutlineandwriteapassagebasedonit.Languagepoints1.Inmypracticeasarelationshipcounsellor,Icomeacrosspeoplenearlyeverydaywhobelievecommonmythsaboutrelationships._____________________________________A.comeacross意为“碰到”，例如：Icameacrossmyoldchildhoodfriendonthestreetoneday.______________________B.本句中，whobelievecommonmythsaboutrelationships是_____________,修饰_____在我作为人际关系顾问工作的期间，我几乎每天都能碰到一些人，他们对人际关系的理解都存在误区。有一天我在街上碰到我儿时的朋友。定语从句people2.Manypeoplebelievethatfindingapartnerwhoisverydifferentfromthemselvesisagreatrelationshipmatch._______________________A.bedifferentfrom意为“___________________”B.本句中，that引导了一个_________,在该从句中，findingapartner是________________,whoisverydifferentfromthemselves是_________,修饰_____.许多人认为找一个与自己截然不同的伴侣是绝配。与…不同的宾语从句主语定语从句。partner3.Butwhileitmaybeexcitingatfirsttobewithsomeonenotlikeyou,inreality,oncetheearlyexcitementwearsoff,youmayfindthatthethingsyouusedtofindunusualaboutthatpersonnowannoyyou.___________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________A.atfirst________________B.inreality_______________C.wearoff_______________D.usedtodosth.意为“________________________”例如：HeusedtoliveinShanghai._____________________________也可以表示“______________________________”例如：Iusedtotakemorningexerciseeveryday.ButIbecamelazynow.____________________________________________be/become/getusedtosth./doingsth.___________________beusedtodosth.__________________________和与自己不同的人在一起，起初会很兴奋，但事实上一旦最初的兴奋褪去，你会发现过去你觉得这个人身上不同寻常的地方现在会让你觉得讨厌。起初实际上逐渐消失曾经做某事他曾经在上海居住过。过去惯常做某事，而现在则不了过去每天早上我都晨练。但是现在我变懒了。习惯某物/做某事被用来做某事E.本句中，that引导了一个__________，该从句中________是__________,youusedtofindunusualaboutthatperson是____________,修饰___________,从句的谓语动词是annoy.宾语从句things主语后置定语things4.Instead,stopfocusingonfindingyouroppositeandfindsomeonewhohasanapproachtolifesimilartoyou.___________________________________A.stopdoingsth.____________stoptodosth._____________B.focusonsth./doingsth.______________C.besimilarto___________________不要再关注于寻找与你性格相反的人，要找那个与你有着类似生活态度的人。停止正在做的事情停下来做另一件事情专注于…与…相似5.Firstofall,tellingyourpartneraboutthingsinyourpastthatyouknowarelikelytobeupsettingisnotgoingtodooryourrelationshipanygood,andcouldbehurtfultoyourpartner._________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________A.Tellingyourpartner…upsetting是_______做___________.B.dosb.good_______________________C.behurtfulto______________________6.dowonders(forsb./sth.)_______________首先，将过去那些你认为会带来烦恼的事情告诉你的伴侣将对于你或你们的关系来说都没有任何好处。动名词主语（对某人）有好处伤害…感情创造奇迹Homework1.FinishPartBinstudents’book.2.Finishexercisepaper.3.PreviewGrammarpart.