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1、UnitElevenInformationAskingEtiquette询问礼仪FocalPoints1.Somebasicrulesoftheetiquetteofasking2.Howtorequesteffectivelyinbusinesssituations3.HowtorequestinformationonaproductorserviceContentsLeadin1ReadingA2ReadingB3ReadingC45ExercisesCompletethefollowingsentenceswithappropriateexpressions1.Hello,________speakwithMr.Jackson?2.Hello,isMr.Jackson_________,please?3.MynameisHackand_________abouttheassistantposition.4.Pleaseletmeknowifthere'sabetter__________tocallyou.I'llbehappytodoso.5.Wouldyoumind____。
2、_______________tellingmeabouttheposition,please?6.Arethereother_______________thatyouarelookingforinthisposition?7.Ihopewecan__________anddiscussthepositionfurther.8.IsthereanythingelseI________________theposition?WarmingupHomeNextBackavailabletimeordayI’mcallingspendingaminuteortwouniquequalificationsshouldknowaboutgettogethermayImayIavailableI’mcallingtimeordayspendingaminuteortwouniquequalificationsgettogethershouldknowaboutLearntheEtiquetteofAskingYoucan'tgothroughlifewithouthavingtoaskother。
3、sforthings.Whetheratworkorathome,youconstantlyneedtoaskotherstodosomethingforyou,getsomethingforyou,orlookaftersomethingforyou.But,thewayyouaskforsomethingstronglyinfluencesthereaction,theresponseandtheultimateansweryougetfromthoseotherpeople.Whetherdealingwithaboss,afellowemployee,yourchildren,otherfamilymembers,orevenmoreimportantlyyourspouse,howyouaskforsomethingisimportant.Andifyouaskthewrongway,youlikelywon'tgetwhatyouwant,notjustthen,butinthefutureaswell.ReadingAHomeNextBackLearntheEtiquet。
4、teofAskingOthersmightbeabletodecodeyourimpoliteorcontrollingwayofasking,andconcludethatyoureallyintendedtoaskinaniceway.Butatothertimes,theymayonlyhearexactlywhatyousaid,andmaynotlikewhattheyheard.Inthosecases,youlikelygetaverynegativeresponseforthem.Ifthishashappened,andyou'rewonderingwhythishappened,takeacloselookathowyouaskforthings.Discoverifyouareusingeffectiveorineffectivewaysofasking.Ifyouimproveyouretiquetteofasking,you'lllikelygetwhatyouwouldaskformuchmoreoften.ReadingAHomeNextBackLearn。
5、theEtiquetteofAskingIneffectivewaysofasking:“Whatabout...”“Bytheway,we'regoingto...”“Doyoumind...”“Aren'twe(oryou)goingto....”“Whydon'twe...”ReadingAHomeNextBackInallthesesituations,youaresupposedlyaskingsomeonetodosomethingforyou.But,areyouasking?Or,areyouonlyusingdifferentwaysoftellingtheotherpersonwhatyouwantthemtodo,andexpectthemtodoitforyou,withoutyourfirstcheckingouttheirfeelingsandviewsontheissues?.LearntheEtiquetteofAskingWhenyouuseapositiveetiquetteofasking,youshareyourrequest,butinaway。
6、,thattheotherpersonmayfeelfreetoturndownyourrequestiftheysowish.And,iftheyagreetoyourrequest,theyneedtobeabletoagreeit,withoutfeelinganycoercionorpressurefromyou.Let'slookatchangingsomeoftheabovepoorwaysofasking,listedabove,intomorepositiveandequalitybasedformsofetiquette.ReadingAHomeNextBackLearntheEtiquetteofAskingReadingAHomeNextBackIneffectivewaysofaskingEffectivewaysofaskingWhatabout...Iaminterestedin...(doingsomething).Iwouldliketoknowifitalsointerestsyou.Doyoumind...Iwouldliketo...(dos。
7、omething).Areyouinterestedindoingitwithme?Whydon'twe...Iwouldliketodo(something).Iamespeciallyinterestedindoingitwithyou.Iamwonderingifyouareinterestindoingittoo.LearntheEtiquetteofAskingBytheway,“wearegoingto...”isnotevenasking.It'stellingyourpartneraboutadecisionafteryouhavemadeit,andwithoutyourpartnerhavinganyinputintothedecision.Ifyoudon'tgetaprettynegativereactionfromyourpartnerwhenyousaysomethinglikethis,yourpartnerneedstolearntostandupforhimselforherself.Mostpeopledon'tintentionallyme。
8、antoaskforthingsrudelyorinacontrollingway.Formany,it'slazylanguage.Theyonlyexpresspartofwhattheyarefeeling.Theyalsoignoretheirpartner'sfeelings.Theyforgetthataskingdoesnotalwaysmeangetting,andthattheyhavenorighttodemandtheirpartnerstodothingsforthem.ReadingAHomeNextBackLearntheEtiquetteofAskingBut,ifpeopledevelopapositiveetiquetteofasking,theywillnotonlygetmorerequests,butalsoamorerelaxedandhappyrelationshipwiththeotherperson.Ifyourecognizethatyou'vebeenusinganyofthenegativewaysofasking,tryusing。
9、amorepositiveetiquette.Youmayormaynotgetwhatyouaskfor,but,yourrelationshipwillbenefitfromdoingso.ReadingAHomeNextBackHowtoMakeEffectiveRequestsinBusinessSituationsWhendealingwithpeopleinbusinesssituationsitis,ofcourse,essentialtobeaspoliteasnecessary.Englishhasaratherunique,diplomaticstylewhenspoken-itisimportanttonotsoundtoodirectwhenyouaremakingrequestsasthiscansoundimpoliteandmorelikeademand.Modifyingyourlanguageisaveryeffectivetacticinbusinessdealingswhenyouaretryingtoestablishafriendlyandco。
10、operativeatmosphere,especiallywhennegotiatinginmeetingsoraskingforassistancefromcolleagues.Politeuseoflanguagewilltakeyoufar.However,therearedifferentlevelsofpolitenessandhowyouusethemdependsonthreethings:ReadingBHomeNextBackHowtoMakeEffectiveRequestsinBusinessSituations1)Yourrelationshipwithyourlistener.Isheorsheyourbossoracounterpartoracolleagueyouconsideragoodfriend?2)Howimportantyouconsideryourrequesttobe.Ifsomethingisveryimportantand/orurgentyoumayneedtobemorepolitethanusua。
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