love-and-marriage(爱情与婚姻)

Groupmembers:Loveisakindofpassion.Peoplemayfallinlovewitheachotheratfirstsight.Somebodysays:fallinginlovereturnsustotheemotionsofinfancyandchildhood.sopeopleinlovelivealifeinthepresent,theyalwaysdon'tthinkthefuture.whatislove?whatisloveLoveispatient,loveiskind.Itdoesnotenvy,itdoesnotboast,itisnotproud.Itisnotrude,itisnotself-seeking。itisnoteasilyangered,itkeepsnorecordofwrongs.Lovedoesnotdelightinevilbutrejoiceswiththetruth.Italwaysprotects,alwaystrusts,alwayshopes,alwaysperseveres.Loveneverfails.爱是恒久忍耐，又有恩慈；爱是不嫉妒，不自夸，不张狂；不做害羞的事，不求自己的益处；不轻易发怒，不计算人的恶，不喜欢不义，只喜欢真理；凡事包容，凡事相信，凡事盼望，凡事忍耐。爱是永无止息。愿得一人心，白首不相离。——卓文君《白头吟》结发为夫妻，恩爱两不疑。——苏武《留别妻》死生契阔，与子成说。执子之手，与子偕老。——《诗经》有美人兮，见之不忘，一日不见兮，思之如狂。——《凤求凰》LovePoemsHowDoILoveThee?byElizabethBarrettBrowningHowdoIlovethee?Letmecounttheways.IlovetheetothedepthandbreadthandheightMysoulcanreach,whenfeelingoutofsightFortheendsofBeingandidealGrace.Ilovetheetothelevelofeveryday'sMostquietneed,bysunandcandlelight.Ilovetheefreely,asmenstriveforRight;Ilovetheepurely,astheyturnfromPraise.IlovetheewiththepassionputtouseInmyoldgriefs,andwithmychildhood'sfaith.IlovetheewithaloveIseemedtoloseWithmylostsaints--Ilovetheewiththebreath,Smiles,tears,ofallmylife!--and,ifGodchoose,Ishallbutlovetheebetterafterdeath.我怎样爱你伊丽莎白·芭蕾特·布朗宁我究竟怎样爱你？让我细数详端。我爱你直到我灵魂所及的深度、广度和高度，我在视力不及之处摸索着存在的极致和美的理想。我爱你像最朴素的日常需要一样，就像不自觉地需要阳光和蜡烛。我自由地爱你，像人们选择正义之路，我纯洁地爱你，像人们躲避称赞颂扬。我爱你用的是我在昔日的悲痛里用过的那种激情，以及童年的忠诚。我爱你用的爱，我本以为早已失去（与我失去的圣徒一同）；我爱你用笑容、眼泪、呼吸和生命！只要上帝允许，在死后我爱你将只会更加深情。LovePoemsOncesomesincerelovesuspendedinfrontofme曾经有一份真挚的爱情摆在我的面前Ididn’tcherishit我没有珍惜onlytofindmyselfextremelyregretwhenitwaslost等到失去的时候才追悔莫及Themostpainfulthingisnomorethanthisinthisworld人世间最痛苦的事情莫过于此IfGodcouldgivemeanotherchance,如果上天能够给我一个重新来过的机会Iwillspeakthreewordstothatgirl:Iloveyou我会对那个女孩子说三个字:‘我爱你’ifthereisatimelimitforthislove如果非要给这份爱加上一个期限Ihopeitwouldbetenthousandyear我希望是一万年。WestwardJourney(大话西游)whatismarriage？Marriageisakindofresponsibility.Marriagebasedontwopeople’slove.Itisnotonlyalovestory.Oncetwopeoplestepintomarriage,theytakeresponsibilitiesforfamily.Theylivetogetherandtherecanbeconflicts,complaintsandsomanyothertrifles.LoveisholdinghandsinthestreetMarriageisholdingargumentsinthestreetLoveisdinnerfor2inyourfavoriterestaurantMarriageisChinesetake-outLoveiscuddling（拥抱）onasofaMarriageisdecidingonasofaLoveistalkingabouthavingchildrenMarriageistalkingaboutgettingawayfromchildrenLoveisgoingtobedearlyMarriageisgoingtosleepearlyLoveisaflickeringflameMarriageisaflickeringtelevisionLoveis1drinkand2straws（麦杆，吸管）MarriageisDon'tyouthinkyou'vehadenough!Thedifferencebetweenloveandmarriagetheessenceofmarriage:LoveTrustRespectIndependenceCommoninterestCommunicationMarriageexpertsbelievethatcommunicationisthemainfactorleadingtoaharmoniousrelationshipbetweenhusbandandwife.Thepurposeofcommunicationistoknowandunderstandeachother.Themostimportantessenceofmarriage:CommunicationHowtocommunicate1.Sayingsomethinggoodisbetterthansayingsomethingmuch.2.Listeningismoreimportantthanspeaking.3.Becompletelyhonestisnotbetterthanleavingroomforeachother4.Appreciationandencouragement,toleranceandunderstanding.如何沟通1.说得多，不如说得好。2.倾听比说更重要。3.完全坦白，不如留有余地。4.欣赏与鼓励、包容与谅解。培养双方共同的兴趣爱好，寻找共同话题。双方发言的机会要均等。凭借谈话来了解对方。全面了解对方。IncreasecommoninterestsandfindcommontopicsEqualopportunitiesforbothtospeakUnderstandeachotherbytalkingAcomprehensiveunderstandingofeachotherCommunicationskillsbetweenhusbandandwifeHerearesomefilmsaboutlovestoryTitanicRomanHolidaySleeplessinSeattle50FirstDatesCityofAngels泰坦尼克号罗马假日西雅图夜未眠初恋50次天使之城TitanicTitanicTitanicsleeplessinseattlesleeplessinseattleRomanHolidayRomanHoliday•50FirstDates50FirstDates50FirstDatesCityofAngelsWishweallhaveahappyending!WhatisLove?知识回顾KnowledgeReview祝您成功！